HopeLessLoner Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 If trying to reconcile with someone what would be the best option to initiate contact: in person or by text. I keep on hearing by text is better because the other person won't be pressured to answer but I think in person shows mire maturity. Just wondering everyone's opinion? Link to post Share on other sites
love1336x Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 Text is I dunno? Fishy, and to me very impersonal. I most def, like face to face get a better discernment of where they are coming from, but if you want to play it safe, a simple "Hello, what' up?" whatever you do you keep it very causal.:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 You get a better more immediate reaction response through the call. If they don't the call you can assume they aren't interested in a reconciliation. But then again I hate texts & can't think of a worse way to try to repair the complexities of a relationship, except maybe snap chat or what's app. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 In person. More is learned thru body language then simple text or even voice tone alone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Charlie101 Posted February 21, 2015 Share Posted February 21, 2015 Not that I'm an expert or really know myself as im on the same page I just can't decide whether If I try reconciling I'm setting myself up for more hurt because I don't know what she wants or if she's moved on to someone new.... But I'd say text first just keeping it very casual as it's less pressurising as you say and not so in your face, gauge where your ex is coming from then just ask them out for a coffee or something where you can meet up in a relaxed environment so not coming on to strong Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 I don't think you should be initiating anything anytime soon. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mi7522 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 If trying to reconcile with someone what would be the best option to initiate contact: in person or by text. I keep on hearing by text is better because the other person won't be pressured to answer but I think in person shows mire maturity. Just wondering everyone's opinion? Dude after reading your previous threads you're best to do neither of them. If she wants you back you'll know. Until that happens move yourself in the forward direction. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Sorry to hear you're still considering contacting her. Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie1231 Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 To initiate contact, I would text. If you're thinking of reconciling, have that talk in person but just text to see if she even wants to meet in person. If she doesn't, you already have your answer. If she agrees, meet her and see how things feel before you bring up reconciliation. Link to post Share on other sites
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