nat1838 Posted April 5, 2005 Share Posted April 5, 2005 I think I am just going to give up on love all together. It almost seems like my love life is some sort of cosmic joke or something. My last boyfriend, which was the first one in seven years, only stayed around for 2 months. The one man I have ever met that I know would be absolutely without a doubt perfect for me is scared of a "mixing business with pleasure" relationship. Even though he works in shipping and receiving and I work in IT in a very large corporation. It just scares him about what would happen when he had to make deliveries to us if things didn't work out. To make things worse, I have a guy who is heavily flirting with me and who is extremely interested. Sounds great right? WRONG!! He's married...... People always tell me I am one of the best people they know, and every guy I have ever dated (and others) have told me that I am the nicest, sweetest, most caring person they have ever met. I always remain friends with them. So why is a relationship impossible?? This is just rediculous. I am just ready to give up...... Sorry, I was just venting......Thanks for listening....... Link to post Share on other sites
gridiron Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 Sorry to hear that. I've gone out with a girl from work before, but I'm at a big company and it was someone in another dept I do not ever see on a daily basis, so that was easier for it to not have any negative consequences after we broke up. Your situation with the guy you like is different, and you can only respect his decision not to pursue a relationship. The search is tough, but you have to move on, maybe after going through a couple of pints of double-chocolate ice cream, or whatever you girls when you are depressed about your love life. Link to post Share on other sites
bebegal Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 [color=indigo]I feel the same way. I feel as though I wil never find someone. WHen I find someone I like they want fwb.. etc. I am starting to thinK I will be single forever[/color] Link to post Share on other sites
asianpartyboy Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 I think a lot of people are single because they didn't actively seek for a relationship. A lot of people don't have the time to spend every day at the place where they can meet a lot of people on a regular basis. Maybe posting your ads online is a good idea. Girls always get a lot of responses back:-). I use it a lot lately. -a Link to post Share on other sites
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