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What is the worst **** test you've had to deal with from a woman?

 

How did you deal with it? (they say if you dont bite on it, you beat it)

to me it seems as if, if you dont bite on the test then you are showing her that you approve of the behavior.

 

When has a woman crossed the line (except cheating) with her **** tests?

 

I also feel like some women give you **** test so that you fight, take a break and its her time to have fun with another man in the mean time.

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I failed every **** test my xWW gave me until she cheated. But since I can't talk about that...

 

My GF never fitness tests me. Not once has she ever done so. I think it's because fitness testing simply isn't part of her genetic makeup, and that she anyway knows I'm fit enough to handle whatever may come, which makes testing for it redundant.

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Sincerely, I was hoping to figure out what this (****) meant after someone posted...

 

how does a fitness test mean **** ?

And what does it have to do with cheating??

 

... and how did YOU, toolforgrowth, know this (****) was for fitness?!

:confused:

 

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well i just dont understand the point of a s h i t test. if they care about us they shouldnt be s h i t testing us right?

 

 

...Aaand now I am even more confused

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i dont know what a fitness test is but you know what a s h i t test is...right?

 

testing the consistency of your bowel movements?

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My XH never gave me any kind of tests (I don't think) before he cheated. Was just more verbally and mentally abusive than usual...

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no! hahaha but you made me crack up!!!

 

a s h i t test is when a girl purposely makes you mad and puts you through a tough time, example flirts with another guy, or allows another guy to flirt with her or goes to a dinner with another guy and says hes just a friend and says that you are too jealous... etc.

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mental and verbal abuse can also be a **** test. there shouldnt be any abuse what so ever. if you love someone, just care for them and be there for them.

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no! hahaha but you made me crack up!!!

 

a s h i t test is when a girl purposely makes you mad and puts you through a tough time, example flirts with another guy, or allows another guy to flirt with her or goes to a dinner with another guy and says hes just a friend and says that you are too jealous... etc.

 

 

How in the he$$ is that a test?!

What that is, IS Inappropriate and cheating behavior right from the start.

 

shoot. I'm sorry. At least x was a bully from start to finish... :o

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Funny how none of the women here ever even heard of this, much less did it. All in you guys' heads!

 

Think I'm the only woman here who has resonded so far... and I have spent the last 16/17 years walking on eggshells and just surviving...

 

you okay tonight preeaph? :)

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ok i test guys....i have to......adn any person on earth tests a a possible partner its done on a subconscious level most fo the time.....maybe its appearance or how they feel about sex or how they treat others or how they react to certain situations or if they have feelings for another before you become close to them...its all tests......to see if you mesh on core values or you stand behidn the words you say ..again all tests......

 

 

men go around thinking ooh she tests what a b........itch...or he is testing me what an ass........but to have that mindset means that you are thinking that the woman or man is setting you up to fail.....it isnt like that at all....if i set up tests its because i want a man to pass.....with all my heart....i am rooting for him silently...as my test is silent......i dont say hey you passed the test and gloat.......i just smile and say thankyou god for sending this guy my way....my test5s are core tests....oen i dotn want to eb with a guy who is thinking or loving another.......and two ...i dotn want a guy who doesnt like kids......i dont want a guy to tell me all the right things and live a life filled with misery because everything he said was what i wanted to hear...three i cant be hit anymore......not by anyone......i dont deserve that life.....and ill make damn sure the guy i am next with believes in not hitting women without asking outright....because every guy who wants sex.......says how horrible it is......my tests dont feel like tests at all....they are simple questions....and most of the tests i do are by observing how he treats others......and his values and morals and standards are normally able to beseen ...before i express feelings...

 

 

point of fact my exes failed tests and i let it ride on a bell curve..oen fo them was hwo they treated me when pretty women were around...both a fail..........they both cheated....they both hit me....and they both said what i wanted to hear.....ill test more thoroughly......not less.....and no sliding scale...its black or white right or wrong for me...next time....if i end up alone......i can live a happy life............deb

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Oh it's not in our heads. Probably the worst one I've dealt with was when one of my ex's was making an extended stay in another state due to a family illness and I ended up taking a trip down to see her. After getting delayed and delayed and delayed at the airport all day due to bad weather I finally managed to get there around 9 or 10 I think and she basically told me I got there way later than she thought and it was now too late to come pick me up, as she had offered. :rolleyes: For no particular reason other than it was late.

 

The car rental desks had closed by then so the only option was taking a cab, and since she was so far away it would have been quite a bit of money, on top of what I already spent to come see her. I forget exactly what I said but I was in the process of making local hotel arrangements because she was basically dumped when she called me back and we ended up working it out.

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I was dating a woman for a little while and we were going to go to a concert. An hour before the show she tries to pick a fight for no reason at all and tells me she doesn't want to go and that she wants to go home. We were in New York so I offered to hail a cab for her so she could go back to the train station and go home and I could enjoy the show. I wasn't about to miss out because she decided to throw a tantrum for no good reason. She apologized and we enjoyed the show but I broke it off a few days later.

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I was dating a woman for a little while and we were going to go to a concert. An hour before the show she tries to pick a fight for no reason at all and tells me she doesn't want to go and that she wants to go home. We were in New York so I offered to hail a cab for her so she could go back to the train station and go home and I could enjoy the show. I wasn't about to miss out because she decided to throw a tantrum for no good reason. She apologized and we enjoyed the show but I broke it off a few days later.

 

Yeah... don't stay with anyone who messes with you or whose behavior you don't like. If you do stay, you just have to wonder, "why the heck did I stay?"

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Alright. I read it twice. Then read a couple parts a third time. Bare with me for a minute...

 

So you're saying that when I would dress sexy to go out on a date with x that I was testing him because I secretly dressed that sexy for 'other men' to notice me so that x would do the man thing and pull me closer and be protective etc...?

 

wow.

I can't believe I did that! !?!

For that guy.... :sick:

but I can see how I did though. I just didn't realize it. :bunny:

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I'll make sure then that I should start doing this alot more and consciously :)

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This happened about a week before she cheated, dumped me, moved out all for this other guy she'd been emotionally cheating with on the computer.

 

I bought a bunch of ingredients for a hearty stew. I explained to her my intentions. About an hour before I left for work, I asked her if she would mind cutting all the vegetables up and tossing it in the pot. Simple.

 

Sure. No problem.

 

When I arrived home that night, she'd deviated entirely from the recipe but used some of the integral ingredients for something else that served about two portions. I was livid. I kept cool, though.

 

In retrospect, it was all a trap to start a fight.

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I read the link. IME, life provides plenty of "**** tests" for all of us. No need to manipulate one. Life happens, we observe how the other handles it, and either feel more or less interested as a response. Important stuff in choosing a life partner, for men or women!

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I read the link. IME, life provides plenty of "**** tests" for all of us. No need to manipulate one. Life happens, we observe how the other handles it, and either feel more or less interested as a response. Important stuff in choosing a life partner, for men or women!

 

 

Xxoo you are probably right.

I just had no idea they were called 'sh*t' tests. :lmao:

 

...oh comeon! It is too funny

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This happened about a week before she cheated, dumped me, moved out all for this other guy she'd been emotionally cheating with on the computer.

 

I bought a bunch of ingredients for a hearty stew. I explained to her my intentions. About an hour before I left for work, I asked her if she would mind cutting all the vegetables up and tossing it in the pot. Simple.

 

Sure. No problem.

 

When I arrived home that night, she'd deviated entirely from the recipe but used some of the integral ingredients for something else that served about two portions. I was livid. I kept cool, though.

 

In retrospect, it was all a trap to start a fight.

Giving them a fight when they want one is by far the best strategy.

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Bahston- How you guys doin' up there? I miss Bahston, not now I guess. Sis is in Newton.

Filorida is a balmy 60 :p Anyone killed each other for parking yet? Memories..

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