dcannon Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I've had a couple of girls in recent weeks make stalking jokes: as in, they are going to find me and stalk me. Here's one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/515915-women-who-pester-me-meet-them-2.html#post6166407 The other girl was a bartender at a wine bar. The bartender girl was joking around with me since she felt lonely on valentine's day. So, I guess, just kind of a strange off-color joke for a single girl. The girl I know, I don't know what motivated that comment. When girls "joke" about stalking you, is that a compliment?
ExpatInItaly Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I've had a couple of girls in recent weeks make stalking jokes: as in, they are going to find me and stalk me. Here's one: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/515915-women-who-pester-me-meet-them-2.html#post6166407 The other girl was a bartender at a wine bar. The bartender girl was joking around with me since she felt lonely on valentine's day. So, I guess, just kind of a strange off-color joke for a single girl. The girl I know, I don't know what motivated that comment. When girls "joke" about stalking you, is that a compliment? No idea. I've never personally made a stalking joke. I suppose it's not a bad thing, but it sounds a bit juvenile if you ask me. I wouln't put much thought into it.
LoveRefreshed Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I think different people can get away with saying different things. I am one of them, I make all sorts of inappropriate jokes but somehow get away with it. Say with a good, genuine smile and you're okay. I have had girls make jokes with me about that, it was funny. Never did I get a legitimate stalker.. or maybe I got the best one ever and I still haven't noticed her, haha. I think real stalkers don't genuinely joke about being a stalker. 1
LookAtThisPOst Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 Yeah, I hear women doing this all the time. Just replace "Stalking" with "Crush" or something. It's kind of an ego thing too, because women some women love to brag about being "Stalked", though it is quite unnerving when they refer to a man that has a crush on them...that it's a misnomer of sorts. "Yeah, Ted, I think he likes me...and now I think he's stalking me...hehehehehe!" They so non-chalantly say it, too.
Haydn Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 It`s when they start turning up at places only you would be then it becomes a problem. A few jokes is pretty harmless. (My opinion) OP, do you feel it a compliment or something more sinister?
Erised Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 I've made stalking jokes with friends and such. It wouldn't be funny if it weren't absurd.
Erised Posted February 25, 2015 Posted February 25, 2015 . or maybe I got the best one ever and I still haven't noticed her, haha. Well, yes, some of us still have dedication to our craft....
Author dcannon Posted February 25, 2015 Author Posted February 25, 2015 It's kind of an ego thing too, because women some women love to brag about being "Stalked", though it is quite unnerving when they refer to a man that has a crush on them...that it's a misnomer of sorts. I meant when girls joke about stalking a guy.
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