Imjustanormalguy Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 I have been talking with a girl online for 3 years and planned to meet her this summer. We skyped every single day and fell in love, but about 7 months ago, there were a lot of fights and it changed our relationship a little. We never talked about love after that, as I believed her feelings changed for me. A few days ago she text me one day saying she still loves me and wants to be with me and that she was hiding her feelings all this time...I was shocked but I told her I still had feelings for her too. We talked the next day, but since then, she hasn't even text me for 3 days now... Part of me thinks that she lied and just said that to me, and if so, it was really cruel, but if she loves me for real, why doesn't she want to text and talk to me more? Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 if she loves me for real, why doesn't she want to text and talk to me more? Maybe she was expecting you to text her? Maybe she used up the texts in her plan? That's if they're not unlimited. Don't rely on texts. Write her a nice e-mail. Anyway, don't push it too much until you meet her in person. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted February 26, 2015 Share Posted February 26, 2015 She probably does love you but a person can only handle LD for so long. One still can be very lonely in this type of relationship because of the lack of physical contact. It's possible she is weighing her options because of either she met someone or she wants to meet someone locally or is unsure what your meeting is going to result. 3 years without physical contact with anyone is real tough..... Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 3 years online and never seen each other that's pretty a long time. She might have found someone offline. Just don't know unless she can say "hey it's been real, but I've met someone else". Most woman don't do this and you are left out in the cold waiting for her to text you back. Might have to move on or just wait in the background for her to contact you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
craigjkt1 Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Have you met her directly? If you never meet her, you try to ask her to meet and have a lunch / dinner together. If she reject or avoid you... maybe she doesn't serious you. You can test her... Link to post Share on other sites
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