Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 That's not No Contact. No Contact means no keeping tabs on her. To use your analogy, you'd be better off finding a more enjoyable channel or just putting on music. Yeah I shouldn't make myself feel any worse. I'll keep that in mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 Haha now she asks me if I could go out with her normally again for the last time before we don't see each other again. Probably that's why she called me last night. Link to post Share on other sites
Cedar27 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Haha now she asks me if I could go out with her normally again for the last time before we don't see each other again. Probably that's why she called me last night. That's crazy. The next time you see her should be when she comes back to you asking to get back together. Psycho confirmed. Link to post Share on other sites
quattrob Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Haha now she asks me if I could go out with her normally again for the last time before we don't see each other again. Probably that's why she called me last night. Like you said in your previous posts, you kinda already had this feeling that the only reason she was looking for you was because she felt guilty (i would bet it's this one) because she's moved on so quickly with this other guy that she probably met for awhile. So she just wanted to ease the guilt by "caring" about you, hoping to make you feel better being a "friend". And she only wants closure it seems for herself and not you.. to say that she reached out alot to you to make it all better.. If I were you, I wouldn't give her what she wants. She's being selfish as far as I know. She's only doing all this for herself from what I can tell. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 Like you said in your previous posts, you kinda already had this feeling that the only reason she was looking for you was because she felt guilty (i would bet it's this one) because she's moved on so quickly with this other guy that she probably met for awhile. So she just wanted to ease the guilt by "caring" about you, hoping to make you feel better being a "friend". And she only wants closure it seems for herself and not you.. to say that she reached out alot to you to make it all better.. If I were you, I wouldn't give her what she wants. She's being selfish as far as I know. She's only doing all this for herself from what I can tell. Haha yeap, all the time after the break she never thought about me. I definitely won't give her what she wants. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Haha yeap, all the time after the break she never thought about me. I definitely won't give her what she wants. And now that you know her motives, it's time to block the number. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 Now she's like " I think I kinda miss you :/ " Hahaha Link to post Share on other sites
Cedar27 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 I think the more you keep your distance the more motivation she will have to reconcile. Be strong my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 I'll do what I can do.. Will keep you updated. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 As long as you stay in contact.... and make reconciliation your goal -- as opposed to healing and acceptance.... this cheating drama queen will keep you on an emotional merry-go-round. Just saying. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 Well if anything happens I would be the one doing the dumping next time. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 If anything happens? Not sure what that means -- you mean if she cheats on you again? She's being unfaithful to her current boyfriend by being in contact with you in this manner.... and she was most likely unfaithful to you when she was in contact with him before your breakup! Which is why she tried to hide the relationship from you at first... to cover up her cheating. This girl should start a cult, she's seriously that good at manipulating people. "Who do I love".... I still can't believe the nerve of her to text you that!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 She put that quote on Facebook a day ago? , which she removed a while later. She added him on Facebook around two to three weeks after our break, whom she says is an elementary school friend/childhood friend? Third week after the break up they started to see each other very often, going home very late, texts each other very often. I can tell that she is lying when I asked if they are together. Whenever I see her in school she looks lonely probably cos her bf isn't around to fill the space that I used to take up, which I assume it's because of her feelings which she didn't fix after the break up. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Are you guys in high school or college? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twigyy Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 Erm I don't know which term is it in my country. But we're in polytechnic. After next year I would be working already. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Well, I was looking for some way to cut her some slack or justify her behavior. I thought maybe she was 15 or 16. Oh well! Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 She put that quote on Facebook a day ago? , which she removed a while later. She added him on Facebook around two to three weeks after our break, whom she says is an elementary school friend/childhood friend? Third week after the break up they started to see each other very often, going home very late, texts each other very often. I can tell that she is lying when I asked if they are together. Whenever I see her in school she looks lonely probably cos her bf isn't around to fill the space that I used to take up, which I assume it's because of her feelings which she didn't fix after the break up. Dude, stop checking her social media. That's not No Contact. There's absolutely nothing to be gained from keeping tabs on her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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