LovinTheSky Posted February 28, 2015 Share Posted February 28, 2015 Today, i asked if my girlfriend could come over and hangout on this beautiful day were having, though her moms quite clingy (Yes, My girlfriend still lives with her mom) so, i later got a text message from her mom asking to have me call her so that she can ask a couple questions. she tried to make it clear that she wasn't going to "Grill" me and that i should not be nervous. last night i visited my girlfriend (We have alot of snow here and it doesn't usually snow) and she mentioned that her mom said to her "Oh don't act like i don't notice" And that "You're going too fast" were both young, (shes 16) and we've been dating since the 15th of this month. Me and her are strongly in love, always dying to see each-other (Young love right?) and so we kiss, and cuddle. but that's all we've done. i set guidelines with her saying were not going to move past the level were at for AWHILE. Her mom has already seen a picture we took of us kissing, and liked it, even commented saying it was cute. So shes fine with that. and me and her have already cuddled while her mom was in the room (Good idea huh? ) But I'm not getting as to why her mom would be concerned. it'll be the first time i saw her outside her own house, and i think her mom thinks were going to do something stupid. So, what im asking is, is there any reason you can see as to why she'd want me to call her before my girlfriend can come over? Is there anything you guys think she might ask? And why does she think we're moving too fast? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted February 28, 2015 Share Posted February 28, 2015 Her mom is not cligny, she is doing her job as a mom, and a darn good one if you ask me. You have nothing to fear, I think she just wants to confirm with you the rules she expects her daughter to obey by. Be nice and practice the reply 'yes mam, understood'. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 28, 2015 Share Posted February 28, 2015 As a parent your GF's mom is trying to gauge your character. I think it's a bit odd that the mom messaged you rather than talking to you in person. I think the mom may be more comfortable having her daughter in her own home where she can keep an eye on you both & keep your raging teenaged oversight. Be respectful of the mom. As for your GFs living arrangements I don't know any 16 year olds who have their own space, unless they are boarding school. Link to post Share on other sites
devilish innocent Posted February 28, 2015 Share Posted February 28, 2015 The physical sense isn't the only way a relationship can progress too fast. You've only been seeing each other for two weeks, and you're already "strongly in love". You can't help your emotions. You do need to keep in mind there's a lot the two of you still don't know about each other. It will take time to really see how compatible you are. People who jump into making things too serious early on can end up trapping themselves. They've made their minds up that the other person is perfect for them, so when warning signs start to emerge they don't notice them. They give up their other friends, hobbies, and free time for each other, so they have nothing to fall back on if the relationship ends. All of these things can cause people to get stuck in unhealthy relationships for too long. Even if the relationship breaks up, then the heartache is a lot worse for those same reasons. I think your girlfriend's mom is happy for the two of you. She just wants to keep an eye on things since you guys are still young and innocent. I don't know what she'll ask you. But your girlfriend knows her mom. If she's saying she won't "grill" you, then it's unlikely she will. Just be polite, and I'm sure you'll be okay. Link to post Share on other sites
Gary S Posted February 28, 2015 Share Posted February 28, 2015 (edited) You are only 16.... are you even allowed to post on this website?! And you have been dating the daughter for 13 days and you are both in love You were cuddling in front of mom? - that was a dumb move, Einstien Her mom is a blocker. Blockers can be a problem. But you are only 16... I don't blame her for blockin'... better keep that bedroom door open, ya hear?! The next time you see mom, tell her, "Don't give me no lip or I'll spank you"! - see what she says to that. All them old ladies like 50 Shades of Grey, she'll love it! Good thing I'm not the daughter's dad... I'd come up to ya with a grin like Jack Nicholson and ask, "Son, what are your intentions toward my daughter"?! And then I would go and get the shotgun out of the back of the truck!!! I'm just messin' with you. Just keep it in your pants, or I'll turn you from a rooster to a hen with one shot Edited February 28, 2015 by Gary S Link to post Share on other sites
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