Ever have sex with your spouse and fantasize you were both teenagers?

[Clockwork]

Alright, sex with my wife is the best, still is, even after children. She's 30, still could pass as 21. Love her to death. I met her when she was 22. There is a 4 year gap, I am older.

 

 

So here is the thing. Have you ever seen pictures of them before you met and fantasized over them? Like as a teenager or anything? Or have you pretended that you were both teenagers and hooking up somewhere?

 

 

My wife had her prom date take off with his friends that night. She was a virgin. I know it sounds kinky but I have always put myself in the place of that guy and not done that. There are a lot of pictures of my wife before we met that turn me on instantly (of course she still does very much in her current state). But does anyone else have these fantasies?

[SJS]

Haha...we were both minors when we got together as it is, so fantasizing about him any younger would be really wrong!

[Clockwork]

Haha...we were both minors when we got together as it is, so fantasizing about him any younger would be really wrong!

 

Or you can always fantasize and remember those days fondly

[kylle]

Lol, my first time and my first kiss were so terrible that if I try to fantasize about when I was younger than 18 I would go totally flacid in 1 second.

[spanz1]

it is called "role playing", and if you two are a little creative, it can really heighten your sex life in a "safe" way (i.e. no cheating, no open marriage, but with the thrills of kinky sex).

 

 

so go for it. but try to mix it up. like next time, pretend she is a police officer who stopped you for a traffic violation, and you are trying to negotiate getting out of a ticket (handcuffs are optional, lol)

[MJAlex]

Those times in anyone's life could be very exciting! The idea of a new relationship as a teenager always got me going.

I don't think it's wrong! It's clear you're still attracted to your wife now, and appreciate her for who she is. Thinking about that first time with her could be one way to put some spice in the relationship.

It isn't as if you're thinking about a co-worker. It's still very much focused on the love for your wife.

[Michelle ma Belle]

I think this is a pretty common thing many men fantasize about. My man does the same thing. He LOVES to look at pictures of me in high school and hear stories of my youth and often plays out scenes in his mind of things that might have happened had we met at that time. I think it's hot not to mention flattering that he fantasizes about ME!

 

As for me, I've come to realize how much I enjoy hearing about some of HIS earlier sexual experiences. I never thought I'd be one who'd be okay never mind get turned on hearing about other women but it has proven to be quite arousing for me. (Although I don't particularly enjoy stories of his more adult relationships).

 

At the end of the day, this ends up fueling our fantasies and connection and ultimately our sex life in one way or another and makes for some seriously hot sex!

Edited March 4, 2015 by Michelle ma Belle

[Clockwork]

it is called "role playing", and if you two are a little creative, it can really heighten your sex life in a "safe" way (i.e. no cheating, no open marriage, but with the thrills of kinky sex).

 

 

so go for it. but try to mix it up. like next time, pretend she is a police officer who stopped you for a traffic violation, and you are trying to negotiate getting out of a ticket (handcuffs are optional, lol)

 

My wife is the same size, maybe slightly slimmer, than her prom days. I've had her wear the dress a couple of times. That's hot stuff.

 

 

And I have also talked with her about her experiences as a teenager. There weren't a lot of them, but her first "sexual" experience was actually a physical examination from a doctor. I don't know why that turns me on but it does.

[devilish innocent]

My husband actually looked goofy as a teenager so it's not something I usually fantasize about. We did some role-playing about his younger self one time though. We pretended that I had a way to travel back in time and that I was going back to seduce him while he was still an innocent teenager.

[Clockwork]

My husband actually looked goofy as a teenager so it's not something I usually fantasize about. We did some role-playing about his younger self one time though. We pretended that I had a way to travel back in time and that I was going back to seduce him while he was still an innocent teenager.

 

Yeah, we've been there. That's incredibly hot.