kidinfo1 Posted March 6, 2015 Share Posted March 6, 2015 so me and my gf are in a LDR. she lives like 2 hours away yesterday we were texting back and forth and she was saying how she was so horny. I told her to come visit me that night so we could have sex (I couldn't drive my cars in the shop) after we had sex, later on in the night she asked me to look up something on her phone while she was driving (we were checking the hours for a resturaunt). I open up the web browser on the phone and there was porn opened. she was probably looking at it earlier before she came to have sex with me my question is, is this something I should be worried about? girl do you find yourself doing this in an LDR? guys would you be bothered? Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie1231 Posted March 6, 2015 Share Posted March 6, 2015 I look at it sometimes in a relationship that isn't long distance. Sometimes you just have an urge. Since it doesn't seem to be interfering with your sex life, it doesn't seem to be anything to worry about. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 I think this thread belongs to the 'Sexual & Reproductive Health and Practices' section of the forum. is this something I should be worried about?My first thought would be: it looks like she has needs that are not being met and she resorts to that. Maybe you can meet her more often (not sure how often you see her). Incidentally, in another thread you said she's just an hour away. Now it's 2 hours. But then, I guess you should really consider the whole picture: you don't last enough, she can't orgasm while having sex, so after you orgasmed, you need to go down on her and finish what you started, so that she can orgasm too; you are away from each other most of the time, and now you know she watches porn when she's in a mood for sex. Are you sure you're a good match? Also, the girl has a debt with her ex boyfriend who didn't repay yet (apparently) and is keeping one of his devices that he asked back. Is she a keeper? (No pun intended...) girl do you find yourself doing this in an LDR? I happened to see porn stuff over the web, but I never used it for sex purposes. Most of it repulses me. To each their own. guys would you be bothered? You've been dating this girl for just a few months and surely less than 6 months. It looks like you're just getting to know each other for now and enjoy each other's company. But from that to having a goal and plans together, it's the difference that goes between a pond and the ocean. I don't see her as your life partner. So I guess you should just take it for what it is. What I mean is, she might not feel to share that intimate side of her with you. And that side might stay with her or she could just drop it for the right guy. Who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 You are looking at this all wrong. She looked at porn. She got horny. She Called YOU. That sounds like a good thing. What is the problem? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mickleb Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Are you KIDDING ME?! What on Earth is the issue here? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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