question4u Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I am dating a 50 year old man. I recently discovered that he texts his 19 year old daughter's best friend. He says she's like a daughter and he hung around her a lot over the years. So, he asks her when she's coming to visit him etc....when she's home for college. It seemed odd to me. However, he is close with her parents. Does this seem a little off color?
WonderWoman911 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I think you have all of the evidence,so there's no need to be in denial. See things for how they are and don't try to rationalize his behaviors.
spiderowl Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 It doesn't sound right to me. I would be very uncomfortable dating a guy who was doing this. In fact, I would drop him as I feel it shows some unpleasant tendencies in him.
1040 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Yep, it is odd, or worse. Even if entirely innocent, he could be in for a real problem, in several different ways.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 I am dating a 50 year old man. I recently discovered that he texts his 19 year old daughter's best friend. He says she's like a daughter and he hung around her a lot over the years. So, he asks her when she's coming to visit him etc....when she's home for college. It seemed odd to me. However, he is close with her parents. Does this seem a little off color? Is this the same exact story from a while back, that is already on this forum?
preraph Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 He's probably using his indirect relationship with her as leverage to get next to her. It really can't be good.
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