3rd time works?

[imalittleconfused]

I don´t know what us going on with this girl. I met her last year and we had become friends, she is a beutiful brunette. In the last month we started to act different around each other, looks the way we acted and we´d agreed to go out. We couldnt make the 1st date because both of us had unexpected compromisses. A few weeks after I knew through a mutual friend that she went back to her ex for the 3rd time. He told me that she always is having trouble w/ him. Why she would go back for a 3rd time. I dont understand woman, my friend tells me he is a jerk. I know she has fellings for me, but she also may have feelings for him. The typical love triangle right? I dont know that guy and I dont intend to.

 

What do you recommend to do? Do I keep an eye there and still look around?

Should I talk to her?

 

The thing is that now I may feel ok, I Think of her sometimes, the problem is that i don´t know how I will react if I see her. One of the things I really like about her is the way she looks at me and her smile.

[helena abadi]

unfortunately, i think all you can do is let her know you are still interested, but keep your distance for now. going back for a third round of mistreatment is not a good sign. she needs to work it out once and for all, and it's not wise for you to interfere with that relationship. you have no right.

[imalittleconfused]

appatently they broke up. I found out yesterday,

I´ll give her a little time, any ideas in how to approach her?

 

THANKS

[helena abadi]

remember the famous song line ...only fools rush in....

 

give her time to get over the other guy. if she knows you are interested, then let her come to you. she needs to sort herself out a bit. be prepared tho, there's no guarantee it will work out this time either. be wary. take it slowly.