Has anyone's affair ended because you didn't tell MM your true feelings?

[scatterd]

I would go on with your life. This guy wants someone to fall on and if in fact he is separated he is still married and will need to be single for a while before jumping in a relationship. He is using you for an excuse of leaving his wife and that's not your fault its his.He does not sound like a strong stable man. You know hes a liar for one thing and does not take responsibility for his own actions. just imagine being with someone that is capable of doing the same to you as wife. Now is the time to cut contact find someone single and strong you deserve that.Good Luck I wish you the best.

[Confused48]

Does she then lose any power she might have had by not confessing her undying love?

 

Can a MM manipulate an OW that much if he does not know how she truly feels?

 

I keep hearing on here and in real life how smart I am for keeping my feelings hidden. Is that kind of like a woman's ace card?

 

Not just the above but many of your posts ooze with evidence that you are a master at manipulation yourself. Not judging you, just say'n. You have a lot of comments about how he is or may be manipulating you, playing games. The two of you are both doing that, IMHO.