blakharte Posted April 8, 2005 Share Posted April 8, 2005 What about 3rd chances? The problem is the last screwup was it for me. I mean the guy was in the driveway and she was dressed like she is going out on the town. Her excuse...he came to get the cell-phone back. Horse manure. I left and stopped returning phone calls. I finally started answering again because I like her family and her daughter. However, I have no intentions of putting my heart on her chopping block. Right now, I feel slight concern because of the direction her life is going but it isn't my fault. I can't save her because she makes the choices, not me. I don't even offer advice because giving advice to someone that age is similar to banging one's cranium against a wall of brick. The more I think about it, the more I am determined NOT to give her another chance. I guess it goes back to the cliche, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times, am I just stuck on stupid or what?" Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted April 8, 2005 Share Posted April 8, 2005 If you've continued to end a relationship for a reason and those reasons do not appear to be resolved then why enter the relationship again? If the problem persists, remove the problem and in this case that would mean ending the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted April 8, 2005 Share Posted April 8, 2005 blakharte I have personally had like 6th chances !! ha.. I was with my ex for 7 years and I was the one that always broke up with her (like a dumbass) Well she broke up with me this time so I dont know where i stand because she has a new b/f. I guess it depends on how much you both are willing to try to work things out you know ? Hope this helps you even though its not much advice ! TaKE CARE Peace Link to post Share on other sites
Author blakharte Posted April 11, 2005 Author Share Posted April 11, 2005 Nothing has changed. She NEVER could remember my birthdate while I knew hers back and forth. So this weekend, I asked her if she knew my birthdate. Her response: Well, it's in April. It hasn't passed yet, right? (Then she went into reversal mode....) So you're saying you don't want to be with me because I don't know your birthday? My response: The point is you don't care enough about me to even bother to remember the day I was born. Her response: Yeah, but you love me and I love you. My response: True, but even I've learned that love isn't enough sometimes. I don't trust her and I don't know if I ever will. Her job requires her to flirt with the customers and I understand that....but it's the after work stuff I have issues with. I confronted her about it and she replies, " he's just a friend..."! Riiiiiiiiiiiight....and the moon doesn't have a dark side, it's just poorly lit. She called me yesterday but I didn't feel like talking to her. This is not going to work. I'm going to end it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blakharte Posted April 19, 2005 Author Share Posted April 19, 2005 It was all a joke to her. Thank God for instincts. She was seeing someone else while she was trying to convince me to take her back. All I can say is "Whew." Time to move on. Thanks for responding. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts