Big butt or small?

[rglove]

Originally posted by jen_jen_heartbroken

As soon as guys start working on their beer guts and love handles.

 

I say love your behind, whether small, medium, big, flat, round, square, firm or squishy.

 

 

Jen, you made great points, but they're, somewhat, in cohesive. Yes, men do need to work on their beer guts and love handles, if they want to be more physically attractive to women, but to that same token, if women want an attractive behind and are not naturally blessed with one, they need to put in the work to get one. You say, "Love your behind, whether small, medium, big, flat, round, square, firm or squishy." I say, that's great and all, but if you want others to love it, then, you best make sure it looks right!!! You have to remember that the question was to the preference of others - most especially us guys - as far as the butt is concerned. The question asked, as to what we found attractive and if small butt girls still qualified. Now, although your love you behind statement was empowering, it did not state as to what was attractive.

 

 

p.s. As to my mention of "An Attractive/Beautiful Fall" as far as a butt is concerned, what that speaks to is it falling with contoured grace - meaning basically, that it falls like a teardrop - with a teardrop like contour, instead of falling like a deflated beach ball or balloon, or a cake that sunk in the oven and didn't bake up, like it was supposed to. An Attractive Fall means that the butt falls with symmetrical contour and although it may not sit as pretty, its constitution is still pretty much the same, only now less stately and grand.

[thegoodhubbie]

Round, firm and fully packed My wife's a** is a work of art!

[jen_jen_heartbroken]

Originally posted by rglove

You say, "Love your behind, whether small, medium, big, flat, round, square, firm or squishy." I say, that's great and all, but if you want others to love it, then, you best make sure it looks right!!!

 

Guess what buddy, just because you don't like a certain shape, doesn't mean that there aren't men who do. You can state YOUR opinion, but don't imply that you speak for ALL men.

[rglove]

Originally posted by jen_jen_heartbroken

Guess what buddy, just because you don't like a certain shape, doesn't mean that there aren't men who do. You can state YOUR opinion, but don't imply that you speak for ALL men.

 

 

It's not about my opinion, but what is aesthetically pleasing. And me personally, I have a reputation, for being kind of beauty obsessed and am known for having a refined eye for beauty, but not only that I have researched beauty and what society as a whole regards as attractive, and that's what I speak to. In a recent poll of the "Best Butts in Hollywood", there's a reason "Brad Pitt" got top honors amongst men and the top 3 of the women poll fell as follows, "Jennifer Lopez", "Beyonce", "Angelina Jolie", because those participating in said poll found there butts to be most aesthetically appealing, and there's a reason Hispanic Model/Actress "Vida Guerra" was voted on the internet as "The Best Ass of 2003" and the net touts her as "The chick with the best ass world-wide", "BEST ASS OF ALL", and "the best ass EVER!!!!" and FHMUS.com touts her as "the world's sexiest women" she is FHM magazine's best butt winner, because her Derriere exhibits most to all of the qualities I mentioned. On the whole, there are certain physical characteristics we find attractive in the Posterior!!!

[Merin]

Hmm.. Well I don't have a big ass.. LOL I'm a small Girl, so I guess it stands to reason I don't have a lot of Junk in my trunk..

 

BUTT I suppose as well that the Guy's I've dated were attracted to what I have going on and my being a small Girl wasn't an issue for THEM..

 

Everyone is attracted to different things...

 

My EXBF had a bubble butt kind of... it was nice... BUTT (LOL I just like doing that!) My BF now has a small butt and I it!

[jen_jen_heartbroken]

Originally posted by rglove

It's not about my opinion, but what is aesthetically pleasing.

 

To YOU. That, my friend, would be YOUR opinion.

 

Again, please stop pretending that you speak for everyone and their preferences.

[rglove]

Originally posted by jen_jen_heartbroken

To YOU. That, my friend, would be YOUR opinion.

 

Again, please stop pretending that you speak for everyone and their preferences.

 

You like what you like no doubt, and not all men find what society and consensus opinion deems to be attractive as so, and this applies, also, to the Derriere, and even though there might be certain physical characteristics that are consider the standard for an attractive Derriere, all may not agree with that set standard, but fact is, there is, still, that consensus standard as to what is attractive. Not everybody has the same view/opinion, as to what makes for a Great/Attractive butt, true. And I can’t and don’t speak for everyone, on this subject. But what I do say, that I think most would agree with, is that a butt that is sloppy and filled with cellulite or that’s flat as a board isn’t that attractive, but a butt that’s shapely and well-contoured is.

 

Definition of Contoured:

 

Contoured: (con•toured) 1. Nicely shaped in its lines and curves; Having beauty of form, resulting from those lines and curves. 2. Beautifully outlined.

[jen_jen_heartbroken]

Pay closer attention. You're still not getting it.

 

It is YOUR OPINION as to what constitutes "nicely contoured".

I guarantee that "nicely contoured" DOES NOT mean the same to everyone.

 

.....and, since any description of beauty is in the eye of the beholder,

hence the reason that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

[mutton]

I dont know if it's just me, but I think most boyfriends do find their girlfriend's a**es appealing whether it's small, flabby, or large and shapely. Sure, they might not think its the best a** around, but its what they got. So in that sense, its special despite its shape. Of course, this probably doesnt apply to every guy out there and definately doesnt apply to the single ones either.

[Ryan the man]

Men used to like em small but more and more people are startin to like em big im one of em. Big butts rock

[rglove]

In further researching the Derriere and shaping what makes for a really nice one, I discovered Buttock Augmentation. Cosmetic Plastic Surgery on the Butt is now big. I found info and ads saying as such;

 

 

BETTER YOUR BUTTOCKS

FROM SHAPELESS TO SHAPELY, FROM FLABBY TO FABULOUS!

 

* BUTTOCKS CONTOURING & SCULPTING

* Rounder, Fuller, More Desirable Derriere

* More Feminine, Fuller Buttocks

 

I am not personally a fan of Surgical Augmentation of the body. I’d rather see physical, physique changes made by sculpting ones body through exercise and toning, rather than grafting and surgical augmentation, but the intended results of the surgeries does speak to what is and makes for a nice Derriere, which is the shape, that a pert, shapely, and well-rounded derriere is a good derriere, rounder and fuller buttocks being the key, one with shapely curves and feminine fullness. I say if you desire a better butt, work on shaping it, through conventional means rather than through surgical means. Now, if that doesn’t produced marked enough improvement, than you can consider surgical augmentation, but try conventional means, exercise, first!!!

[JS17]

See, some people bring back good threads from the grave.

 

I like big butts and I can not lie

When a girl walks in with an itty bitty waste

and a round thing in your face

[Jayhawks]

Cause I'm long and I'm strong and I'm dieing to get the friction on

So ladies, Yea, ladies,yea, stick em out even white boys gota shout

Baby got BACK!!!

[Wind]

Hey...women are beautiful in all shape and sizes. Big ass or not. Its the women that carries the sex appeal. A small ass can be just as sexy as a big ass if the women carries her self with confidence. Look at Paris Hilton, many find her body very sexy...yet she has no ass. Its because she uses what she has and walks with confidence.

[nosybear819]

...Paris Hilton is hot, but she has so little butt that I think it's actually concave.

 

I think men pay attention to a woman's a** a lot. I mean how many times have you caught a guy checkin out your butt as you walk by? Or when you show him a new outfit, what's he say? Sound something like this - "Damn girl you look good...let me see the back?" Aww..men are cute. But I think it's more about quality not quantity- ladies you don't have to have a large a** just a nice one. Plus, I'm a woman who likes a man with a nice a** so guys the pressure is not all on us - we're lookin' too you know

[rglove]

Contrary to the beliefs of some Paris Hiton does have a nice posterior. It is nicely shaped and contoured, with extremely nice curves. I notice it in paparazzi photos where you can see cheek. She her butt is small but shapely and actually quite nice, and there's a scene in House Of Wax where she's in a tent with her boyfriend in lingerie and you get her shot of her butt in a thong and it's actually very nice. You might not be able to notice it, all the time, but Paris has a very nice derriere. It's little but it's nice!!! And btw nosey I do have a nice one. Women love to see make it 'clap' and some former female co-workers of mine have caught gay men checking it out!!!

[byte]

I am male and I have a fairly big butt, i exercice and run 3 times a week and have an athletic body but for some reason my ass is big.

 

It's firm, rounded and big, every time i put pants or jeans on my ass bulges out its very noticable and i feel kind of embarrassed, is it possible in any way to reduce the size of my butt.

 

Regards,