Dog Woman Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 After months of NC, exMM sent me a text this morning from a number not know to me. He told me that we are definitely over as he is having so much success in the show ring, he can't afford to lose everything he has worked hard for but it would be okay for me to say hello to him if I see him around. Reading between the lines, he must still be married. So I have blocked the number but not before responding. In my reply I said: "I'm so pleased that everything is working out for you and that if anyone deserves success it is you. I am also glad that we are now on the same wavelength as we ended months ago". I'm so relieved and happy about this. Although in my mind I have moved on from the affair, it appears that the affair is over for him too. I'm so pleased he appears to have sorted himself out. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 (edited) After months of NC, exMM sent me a text this morning from a number not know to me. He told me that we are definitely over as he is having so much success in the show ring, he can't afford to lose everything he has worked hard for but it would be okay for me to say hello to him if I see him around. Reading between the lines, he must still be married. So I have blocked the number but not before responding. In my reply I said: "I'm so pleased that everything is working out for you and that if anyone deserves success it is you. I am also glad that we are now on the same wavelength as we ended months ago". I'm so relieved and happy about this. Although in my mind I have moved on from the affair, it appears that the affair is over for him too. I'm so pleased he appears to have sorted himself out. Strange that he contacted you out of the blue from a number you didn't even have just to tell you he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. You had the perfect response. And, yes, he is still married and sounds like he wanted to continue an affair with you, while saying he didn't want to. What a dweeb. Edited March 10, 2015 by Popsicle 6 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 He probably was hoping you'd beg for him to come back. What an idiot to send something like that when the A has been over for a while now and NC has been in place. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Riri90 Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 I think he wanted a reaction from you. I am not sure how long the NC has been but I am assuming for awhile. He was baiting you. I like how you threw up in his face that the A ended months ago and you are happy he finally moved on 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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