MessedupinMiami Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 After starting NC on Monday he reached out to me today wishing me luck in an presentation I had for work today. I chose not to respond (and I had read receipts on so he knows I saw the message). I feel a sense of relief that maybe he was thinking of me still. do you think he wanted to reach out to me or was just being polite? Either way I am not responding I just wanted to gain some insight. Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbowlove Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 Block him so you don't even see his message coming in... Link to post Share on other sites
badpenny Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 It's "breadcrumbs". Read the No Contact Guide. Then delete, block, evade, avoid and lose this guy for good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ronnie33 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 That was an excuse to open communication with you again. If you really want to be done with him you will block him now knowing he reached out. Use that as your closure if you need it. Otherwise get ready to check yourself into the asylum with the rest of us because that's where you are going to feel you belong before you know it. Link to post Share on other sites
Blu72 Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 My MM always uses "work" as a way to initiate contact again when we are in LC. We haven't worked together in 3 years, but he still uses work as the topic of discussion when I go distant. Currently, we both have been distant for no real particular reason..typical bs game. Anyway I have been trying to not reach out. He emailed me on Monday about some work thing he needed answers about ( our companies do business together). He already knew the answers and if he didn't he has the proper channels to go thru to get what he needed. He was using it as a way to 'check-in' or 'feel me out'. At the end of the day, nothing will change. It's just breadcrumbs. If you truly want NC, don't respond. Trust me, it's just more of the same crap. Link to post Share on other sites
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