kodiak Posted April 10, 2005 Share Posted April 10, 2005 Hey Everybody, I was just kinda curious to see how long people have gone before they got a second chance if that ever came, that is? If you have personally have a story please post it or if you know of one, post that too. Ive been here at the shack for awhile know and i like to her some good stories. Not that it gives me any hope with my ex but it does make me feel better on those days that you fell kinda ****ty, you know? So hopefully we will get some good feedback from this and some good second chance stories too. Take Care............... Link to post Share on other sites
willduggan Posted April 10, 2005 Share Posted April 10, 2005 i got dumped on newyears, and i got a 2nd chance around mid march after a lot of work on myself and learning what needed to be done... saddly she dumped me again on friday... kind of a confusing breakup... we were holding eachother crying and saying how much we loved eachother as i was getting my stuff, we recognized we had personality issues but we didnt know the answers.. i guess im just more willing to work on those issues then her..heres hoping for 3rd chances...heh..if it makes you feel better its been the happiest month of my life lol Link to post Share on other sites
poister Posted April 10, 2005 Share Posted April 10, 2005 We had eight months from first breakup until we started communicating again, followed by three months of friendship, one month of vague in-between, one sexual encounter, and that's it. We're now back at no contact. Lessons learned? Thoroughly examine your motivations and intentions, as well as the likelihood of there being realized. The stuff that happens between times together is a lot of baggage to deal with. That being said, my aunt and uncle broke up for three years, got back together, got married, and it's now eighteen years later, so obviously it can work sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
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