gooza Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 My ex and I broke up at the end of last year for the second time and we were then fwb for a few months then all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and then loses her **** at me because I said something to someone about something she told me (even though they already knew) she then sends me a message about how she doesnt trust me anymore blah blah blah so I then had my bday and didn't invite her because it seemed like we weren't friends anymore... she then sent a massive message saying despite our history she thought I would've invited her. After this we start talking again and have been for a month now, she then goes off at me again (she goes off for the smallest things) and says "I thought you wanted to earn my trust back." Im confused as hell and still like her heaps but idk if she is trying to friendzone me or if she wants something else... she sends mixed signals. Link to post Share on other sites
xinaxxsdertf Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 its all mind games mate and shes thinking of herself only. You dont need to be her door mat dude. She is going to continue to go off at you because you are letting her run everything. she clearly has all the power and you are allowing it. You need to think about yourself, put YOU first and not her. Go no contact, dont reply, dont contact her at all. Not only will it help you remember to put yourself first but it will also mind**** her and she will start thinking whatre you doing. She easily goes off at you, who deserves that? its bs and a bad way to treat someone. if she keeps texting you angrily, let her. Just ignore them, she will upset herself in her own misery. Even if you want to get her back, do you really want her to keep treating you like that? shes left you twice. she goes off at you like she has some sort of authority over you. go NC for now mate Link to post Share on other sites
Author gooza Posted March 14, 2015 Author Share Posted March 14, 2015 Thanks for that bro, I'll go no contact on her and see how she responds to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gooza Posted March 14, 2015 Author Share Posted March 14, 2015 Also I should point out that she has adhd and a bit of depression... one minute she is happy and the next she'll be ****ty and down. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 It doesn't sound like you bring out the best in each other. Multiple breakups, FWB, nastiness and disrespect on both sides from the sound of it.... I think you're better off letting this go. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gooza Posted March 14, 2015 Author Share Posted March 14, 2015 Thanks will consider. Link to post Share on other sites
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