Alexlove Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year was with me and my family for dinner. Now I have a sister who sometimes steals other peoples money but she would never admitt to it. We never confront her but we do keep our money out of her reach. My girlfriend and I noticed my sister walking to the bathroom with my girlfriends wallet. my gf went after her and I wasn't that worried until I hear a bunch of screaming and cursing. As it turned out, my gf filmed my sister taking money out of her purse and busted her but kept the camera rolling as my sister had a nervous break down. My gf just kept going on and on about how my sis will be in jail where she belongs and that everyone on facebook would see the video and what a "vile piece of dirt" she was. I couldn't believe this was happening. Our mom ran over to sooth my sister while scolding my gf and she just asked "why are you defending that thief?" The amount of money my sister was trying to steal was $200 and my gf has clear evidence of that. She posted the video to facebook and tagged everyone so they would see the video. We tried to stop her but my gf reported my sister and she got taken in. The worst part about all this is the fact that my sister is a struggling single mom of a newborn that my parents are now looking after because my sister is in jail! Part of me is so angry at my gf for humilating my sis by posting the video on facebook and causing her to be seperated from her baby. But at the same time my sister is the one who commited a crime. Of course my gf is expecting me to take her side but my family is telling me that my gf is a heartless b**ch and to just leave her for how she handled it... Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 I have to agree with your family on one thing: it is needlessly cruel and destructive for your gf to call your sister horrible names and attempt to destroy her emotionally. So even on top of the very bad behavior exhibited by everyone, starting with your sister being a chronic thief, you and your family enabling that thievery, and the possibility that you may not have warned your gf to guard her money, your gf took bad behavior to a whole new level with her personal, devastating attacks. NOTE: I do support reporting this theft to the police. Your family should also get your sister a good lawyer, and a therapist. And you need to stop enabling. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Timshel Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 What your sister did was wrong, that has to be dealt with. Posting that to FB is incredibly immature and unproductive. I do not side with how you gf dealt with it. She should have deferred to you as it is your family and then chose to not be in your sister's company in the future. Bad situation. What your sis did was wrong; making that public to people who were not involved, shaming her and your family. Nope. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 Welcome to the board! You may want to suggest that the video be taken down. Best to you in your choices of relationships. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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