nick01675 Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 Hello Guys, I used to post in breaking up section and never thought that one day I would post here. I broke up with my Girl friend 2 years back, had troubles coping up initially and eventually started moving on with life. Got a new job, traveled a lot made new friends. I use to miss her a lot ( even now) but I wasn't depressed. Its been 2 years and I am lonely and wanted someone in life and I'am not finding one! Though I had few female friends asking me out, I had politely declined as I didn't have any feelings for them and I wasn't ready for a relationship. Life was just going on with work and nothing new was happening. The only problem in my life was I was lonely, I never used to like my life even though I had a good job, no financial problem and my life was far better than others. Now the problem is that I found out that my Dad is having another family. He has a son 2 years younger to me. We had doubts that he had another family back in 2010 but when confronted he said no and we didn't have enough evidence to prove it, days passed and believed that he didn't have . Yesterday I found that he has, came to know that he stays with them when he is away for his business trip! I don't know what to do, devastated and even feeling terribly bad for my mom. My dad was hiding this from us for more than 25 years!! He is not legally married to his other wife! I am just worried about my mom's future! She worked hard for us (me and my elder Sister), she suffered a lot, my dad didn't reciprocate her love. She used to retain her relationship with Dad just for us. Now its her age to relax and enjoy her life with her husband but I don't think that's going to happen. I don't know what to tell her! Life is getting worse day by day! I am still hoping that this too shall pass!! Just wanted to vent. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 How did you find out? Does your mom know too? This must be devastating to your family but you say that suspected this way back in 2010. I have a feeling that your mother already knew her husband was being unfaithful but chose to stay with him for whatever reasons. I think that your mom will probably be okay in the long run but she likely needs some support and guidance right now. How is she coping with this news? Link to post Share on other sites
Author nick01675 Posted March 14, 2015 Author Share Posted March 14, 2015 How did you find out? Does your mom know too? This must be devastating to your family but you say that suspected this way back in 2010. I have a feeling that your mother already knew her husband was being unfaithful but chose to stay with him for whatever reasons. I think that your mom will probably be okay in the long run but she likely needs some support and guidance right now. How is she coping with this news? I read his mails exchanged between them, he forgot to sign off his email account. My mom had her doubts but today she came to know the harsh truth!! She is numb and she isn't talking much! As I said we had doubts back in 2010 and it was not confirmed. We made ourselves believe that everything was fine! Now its proven. Link to post Share on other sites
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