Wiggler Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 Hello, everyone! So, I wrote a post here the other day because I think I may have a crush on someone and don't know how to advance and if she's even interested (which you can find here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/519528-don-t-know-if-she-s-interested). Anyway, I realized my problem may be harder and deeper than that. I was in a relationship for 4 years, which ended because my girlfriend left me for another guy. Of course, this really affected me and made me lose all my confidence. It took me almost 2 years to feel like I need to get back into dating, you know? And now there's this girl I would really like to hang out with and get to know better, but I lack the confidence to do so, afraid of getting rejected. I really needed to vent (it felt great!) and would love to get some comprehension from you guys, because I feel really lame for not getting involved with someone for so long... Any advices for how I can get back into the dating game would also be great. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 To borrow a sports metaphor: You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Even if she says No Thank You, you will still feel OK about yourself because you worked up the courage to try. Link to post Share on other sites
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