Bunso Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 (edited) I broke up with my gf (I was her first bf, first kiss, first everything) of a year and a half about 8 months ago. I was doing really well as a newly single man. I found a new job which kept me busy (and distracted) so the weeks and months were zooming by and one day she contacts me to set up a meeting (I owed her $50 and she was giving me a few games she had of mine). We meet up and she doesn't really talk to me, instead, I'm talking to her friend (she was helping him with a university application) and when he leaves for the bathroom she looks at me and asks "are you 100% over me?" I respond with "yeah, I think so" then she tells me that she's seeing someone. My question is this, is she being considerate by telling me or is she rubbing it in my face? Ever since then I haven't been able to stop thinking of her. I recently asked her out for lunch (she agreed, is that a good sign?). We talk and she tries to bring up her new love interest but I tell her i Don't want to hear about him, so we proceed to talking about other things but she kept mentioning things that felt like she was trying to get me jealous, saying stuff about other guys and how she went to a strip club (male strippers) with her room mates. I wasnt too happy with how things were turning out so I excused myself. When we left she seemed like she really wanted to talk and catch up, she even walked me to my car and I gave her a loooong hug and she was hugging me as well. After we left I texted her that night saying "to answer your question, I wanted to meet after 8 months because I just realized how amazing of a catch you are" and I invited her to lunch the next day which she respectfully declined stating "I don't think its a good idea" I didn't flirt with her, bring up our old relationship or talk about her new one. I haven't dated as much due to working on myself and work. Idk if I still love her, if I'm jealous, or if I just don't like seeing her with someone else? Any and all advice about this situation is appreciated. I know she's a great girl, smart sexy and funny. I just wasn't that into the relationship and now I might regret breaking up?? Edited March 14, 2015 by Bunso I forgot to mention I am her first boyfriend, first kiss, first everything. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby65 Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 I don't think there's love on either side. I think you probably injured her pride when you broke up with her and she wanted you to know she was with someone else.... I think you want what you can't have and even if you got her back, you wouldn't want her for long. Link to post Share on other sites
Karin2rinkashi Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 Dude.... You don't want her.. you just want to break this new thing she is having. What is the ****ing problem with people like you? Move on! Link to post Share on other sites
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