Bobbi7 Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 I'm slowly trying to get over someone, and I realized going out on a date while doing that didn't help me at all, because while I was talking to the new guy and doing the date, I just started feeling a bit depressed because I was thinking about my previous guy. I just wasn't excited, thrilled, happy to even be going on a date with a new guy. And obviously people don't want to date someone who hasn't gotten over their ex. Is this normal, has it happened to you? I would want to meet someone new. Link to post Share on other sites
elliecoffee Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 A good sign you're ready to date is feeling that peak of curiosity for that certain someone But that good curiosity, you know? when you want to have a good talk about that person, where's he from? what does he like? all that kind of stuff. Well, that's my guess. But I'm a cheeseball, so .-. Hope you're well xx Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 I'm slowly trying to get over someone, and I realized going out on a date while doing that didn't help me at all, because while I was talking to the new guy and doing the date, I just started feeling a bit depressed because I was thinking about my previous guy. I just wasn't excited, thrilled, happy to even be going on a date with a new guy. And obviously people don't want to date someone who hasn't gotten over their ex. Is this normal, has it happened to you? I would want to meet someone new. You know you're ready to date again when you become indifferent to memories about your ex or wanting that guy in front of you to morph into your ex; also, you're long past wanting your ex to come back. If you aren't there, then you're not over your ex and you need more time before getting out there. The last thing you want to do is to lead a new guy on, allow him to develop feelings for you when you already know you don't want anyone but your ex and you are going to have to hurt the new guy by letting him go because you aren't over your ex. That is called "not being fair", as you wouldn't want someone to do that to you, would you? Link to post Share on other sites
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