thorin Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 I am 2 weeks after a break up from LTR, my first girlfriend, a really beautiful one. After she told me she doesn't love me and we could stay friends, I began taking care of the things I ignored when I was in a relationship, like work and university, but I also began partying basically everyday. I just miss all those simple things like hugging and kissing, and I am trying to find myself another girlfriend asap. Well, I'm not proud of it but I kind of got to the point where I was kissing some drunk girl in a toilet, without knowing her name, her number, anything. But she was nothing compared to my previous girlfriend, I wasn't attracted to her. It's just that I'm really afraid I won't find another girlfriend as beautiful as her. I haven't been picking up girls for a long time, I didn't have to, and didn't care. Thus right now I became really needy. And I don't know how to change this. Any thoughts? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
MiSoleil Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Who wants a rebound relationship that will only last so long? Instead of giving your love for free, give it to someone who deserves it and will treasure it. Yea its fun and it will get your mind off the breakup....I also went though my first breakup recently as well. My advice and the advice everyone has been giving me: Focus on yourself. Be good to yourself and know if someone walks out of your life, let them go bc someone better is coming along:) Rebounds are short lived and complicated.... Find a nice girl who you will give your heart to instead lol. I know people are different and have opinions, but honestly, that's what I think u should do, but if not.... there are always cubs and bars, Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 And I don't know how to change this. Any thoughts? Thanks! Stop kissing drunk girls you don't know in toilets, for a start. 2 weeks post break up is not nearly enough time for you to have processed out your relationship. Trying to find someone to save you from being alone with yourself is not fair to that girl. You don't want her for her: you want her as a substitute for your ex, but she's never going to morph into your ex. She can only be who she is and truth be told: that's not who/what you want. So be fair. Don't do that to someone when you know you'd be incandescent with someone who did that to you. Your feelings aren't the only one which matter, which is why right now, a relationship is the last thing you need. You need to get your head back on straight. You need to hack through the cables that are still attaching you to your ex. Until you can be indifferent to the memories of your ex, you're not in a place to enter into any romantic/affectionate relationship with anyone new. Link to post Share on other sites
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