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@I_Give_Up67,

 

One more thing I forgot to mention, we thought about having an open M, but I changed my mind. The reason why is because she tried to seduce me into a hotel room to trick me into getting her pregnant, and I caught it a mile away. She dressed up skanky, and didn't want to use condoms. Not only that, but she also rubbed my penis, and used sexual hypnosis to lure me into the room. I fell into a trance, and I thought I was a goner when we were facing the hotel's door. I am lucky I snapped out of it, and asked her to drive me home. I'm not going to plant my seed into bad soil where I'll have to suffer with a bi-polar woman for the rest of my life.

 

On a side note, the father is pissed off, and has already made legal threats on the phone if I contacted her again. He also hinted off a "trigger" on the phone (as a figure of speech) when my sister spoke to him. I feel that because the father is becoming violent in our marriage, I will either end up shot by him, or end up in prison if I go back with her. Now, I am not afraid of no man, but we can realistically die at any time when a gun is pointed to the back of our head. In a case like this, I want to use wisdom. My gut feeling is showing "DANGER" when I think about going back to her, so I need to listen to my instincts for survival. My therapist even said this was a great idea. As humans, we listen to our gut feeling in order to avoid dangerous situations. Since this marriage has turned into a dangerous matter, I feel the wise solution is to leave her.

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You went online looking for a woman who looked like Princess Zelda. That is about as far from natural as it comes.

 

LOL, Princess Zelda was my first love as a child when I grew up with my NES and SNES. I still use her as a female figure of what I want in a woman. My dream was to have a woman with looks and a personality similar to her's.

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@I_Give_Up67,

 

One more thing I forgot to mention, we thought about having an open M, but I changed my mind. The reason why is because she tried to seduce me into a hotel room to trick me into getting her pregnant, and I caught it a mile away. She dressed up skanky, and didn't want to use condoms. Not only that, but she also rubbed my penis, and used sexual hypnosis to lure me into the room. I fell into a trance, and I thought I was a goner when we were facing the hotel's door. I am lucky I snapped out of it, and asked her to drive me home. I'm not going to plant my seed into bad soil where I'll have to suffer with a bi-polar woman for the rest of my life.

 

On a side note, the father is pissed off, and has already made legal threats on the phone if I contacted her again. He also hinted off a "trigger" on the phone (as a figure of speech) when my sister spoke to him. I feel that because the father is becoming violent in our marriage, I will either end up shot by him, or end up in prison if I go back with her. Now, I am not afraid of no man, but we can realistically die at any time when a gun is pointed to the back of our head. In a case like this, I want to use wisdom. My gut feeling is showing "DANGER" when I think about going back to her, so I need to listen to my instincts for survival. My therapist even said this was a great idea. As humans, we listen to our gut feeling in order to avoid dangerous situations. Since this marriage has turned into a dangerous matter, I feel the wise solution is to leave her.

 

I would have to agree in this case, to go with what your gut is telling you. Not worth the implied threats of violence. You both had a part in how your M is ending. You have much that you can learn from here and know what to avoid in the future.

 

 

Are you still planning on going to Australia to meet up with your online crush?

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I would have to agree in this case, to go with what your gut is telling you. Not worth the implied threats of violence. You both had a part in how your M is ending. You have much that you can learn from here and know what to avoid in the future.

 

 

Are you still planning on going to Australia to meet up with your online crush?

 

No. When a girl says "I just want to be friends", that's the kiss of death.

 

I've blocked her on Face Book. Complete waste of time.

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I know a lot of you people in here are not religious, but I'm just going to go ahead and point something out since I study Torah (I'm of Jewish descent).

 

The Torah (Old Testament) speaks of adultery in two forms which is known as physical contact, and lust within your heart. Because I did not do either of these with the woman in Australia, I do not have a guilty conscience on how you guys are claiming I cheated on her with an "EA". Having an emotional affair is not adultery, and courts in all states won't even recognize an emotional affair as a good cause for filing a divorce, unless it is a no-fault state, meaning adultery cannot be used to defend your case.

 

Take a look at this website that talks about how alimony works. It refers to how courts will grant alimony when a spouse had sexual contact.

 

https://www.rosen.com/alimony/afaqs/what-is-alimony-when-and-how-is-it-paid/

 

So no, what you people are saying about me cheating first by having an emotional affair, I'm not believing it on the sole basis that this is not scripture. Since a man can have feelings for any woman, and this can take place at any time, this does not justify his woman for committing adultery. In fact, the Torah even states that if his wife has committed adultery against him, he must write her a divorce note, and send her away from his house. Here are the sources.

 

Deuteronomy 24:1 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house,

 

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+24&version=NASB

 

I have no guilt for having an emotional affair with another woman. I am a man, servant of the creator, and I will notice who I please.

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I know a lot of you people in here are not religious, but I'm just going to go ahead and point something out since I study Torah (I'm of Jewish descent).

 

The Torah (Old Testament) speaks of adultery in two forms which is known as physical contact, and lust within your heart. Because I did not do either of these with the woman in Australia, I do not have a guilty conscience on how you guys are claiming I cheated on her with an "EA". Having an emotional affair is not adultery, and courts in all states won't even recognize an emotional affair as a good cause for filing a divorce, unless it is a no-fault state, meaning adultery cannot be used to defend your case.

 

Take a look at this website that talks about how alimony works. It refers to how courts will grant alimony when a spouse had sexual contact.

 

https://www.rosen.com/alimony/afaqs/what-is-alimony-when-and-how-is-it-paid/

 

So no, what you people are saying about me cheating first by having an emotional affair, I'm not believing it on the sole basis that this is not scripture. Since a man can have feelings for any woman, and this can take place at any time, this does not justify his woman for committing adultery. In fact, the Torah even states that if his wife has committed adultery against him, he must write her a divorce note, and send her away from his house. Here are the sources.

 

Deuteronomy 24:1 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house,

 

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+24&version=NASB

 

I have no guilt for having an emotional affair with another woman. I am a man, servant of the creator, and I will notice who I please.

 

Deuteronomy also states that if an unmarried woman is raped she has to take her rapist as her husband, but if that's what you need to use to convince yourself you did nothing wrong in this whole thing, so be it.

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Deuteronomy also states that if an unmarried woman is raped she has to take her rapist as her husband, but if that's what you need to use to convince yourself you did nothing wrong in this whole thing, so be it.

 

What does that have to do with anything? My wife was married to me.

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Man, this sounds like some kind of twisted Hitchcock + DH Lawrence (Lady chatterley) hybrid tale.

 

Care to elaborate? I've never seen those movies.

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Reading this thread the said and the unsaid, I come up with the following

 

 

You lived off of the earnings of a woman whose schooling was in special education classes. She catches you having an affair with a woman in Australia.

She uses some money that she earned to get away from you with a mini vacation. She earned it, but you claim it is yours. And you are upset because you planned to use that money in paying for your trip to have a PA with your new girl friend.

I have never been to cheese land, but have met many who have lived there. No matter where they are living a Packer game on the tube is reason enough to have a big cook out, brats, beer, dogs, and cheese, while watching the game. All are welcome, even if you are rooting for the other team.

It does not say much about you if you can't make friends with cheese heads. My advice is to stay away from the land of the Roo.

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Its because I'm not happy with her.......

 

So if you weren't happy with her there is this new found invention called "breaking up". I hear it was the last thing Steve Jobs invented before he died, go check it out! The program is free and even a child over the age of 6 can use it.

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Reading this thread the said and the unsaid, I come up with the following

 

 

You lived off of the earnings of a woman whose schooling was in special education classes. She catches you having an affair with a woman in Australia.

She uses some money that she earned to get away from you with a mini vacation. She earned it, but you claim it is yours. And you are upset because you planned to use that money in paying for your trip to have a PA with your new girl friend.

I have never been to cheese land, but have met many who have lived there. No matter where they are living a Packer game on the tube is reason enough to have a big cook out, brats, beer, dogs, and cheese, while watching the game. All are welcome, even if you are rooting for the other team.

It does not say much about you if you can't make friends with cheese heads. My advice is to stay away from the land of the Roo.

 

Out of all the states and countries I've lived in, Wisconsin is the only place I've had this problem.

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