Should I?

[ins]

SO.. I've had a weird relationship with someone I've had in high school. We never really dated, per say, just knew that both of us liked each other and wanted to be exclusive. We had one date, and I thought it went well for a first date, I knew I wanted to be with her, but time and I guess unforeseen circumstances made it impossible for us to be together. I was devastated, from talking daily to sudden silence.

 

Graduated high school, she mysteriously deletes her facebook and twitter, going MIA for a couple of months to come back to reactive her accounts. I felt weird, seeing her after I haven't seen her in the longest, and I still had feelings for her (after all, she was the girl I had genuine feelings for in my entire life)

 

Regardless, she manages to add me on fb and twitter, even favoriting and rt'ing / liking most of my posts, I quickly made the wrong signal for myself and her. But I knew that I didn't want to get hurt again, but at the same time, being with the girl I've wanted to be with since HS, I figured, I might as well say 'hi' to her privately. We had a small conversation which ended me in getting left out of the convo, I felt weird, was I led on again? Oddly enough, deletes her facebook and social media within 2 months (I guess)

 

Now, she remade her social media, and again-- added me. And still continues to rt my posts, I get the eerie feeling her rt are related to me, but I figured, we only talked, never really dated. What to do? I'm constantly in a zone of a tug-of-war between myself, is she leading me on? Or does she want me to do something? Every time this happens, I develop feelings for her after I got over her, but it seems like she's constantly doing this and I have a feeling she's doing this as a sick, cruel joke.

 

This is kind of a first for me, I've never really was put in this position so I was wondering if you guys can help me out here.

[melodicintention]

I think it's a no go, unless maybe she is really young, but most mature ladies don't friend guys on facebook they want to date. I think you are friendzoned personally. Then again how can you know if you aren't calling her and asking her to hang out? Pretty hard to judge people based on what they do online. Life happens in the real world sweetie, not on facebook or twitter. you want to know how she feels? be a man and call her and ask her.

[ins]

I think it's a no go, unless maybe she is really young, but most mature ladies don't friend guys on facebook they want to date. I think you are friendzoned personally. Then again how can you know if you aren't calling her and asking her to hang out? Pretty hard to judge people based on what they do online. Life happens in the real world sweetie, not on facebook or twitter. you want to know how she feels? be a man and call her and ask her.

 

Hey man, thanks for replying. We're both college freshmans (go to same college) I've never really had the vibe that I was in the friendzone? Reason I couldn't call was because I got a new phone -> lost contact information, so doing that social media was the way to go. But I completely understand, thanks for your advice. I appreciate it a lot, it's great to finally be able to tell someone what I've been holding in myself and it was killing me in the inside knowing what if. But you gave me the assurances of it.

[privategal]

Hey man, thanks for replying. We're both college freshmans (go to same college) I've never really had the vibe that I was in the friendzone? Reason I couldn't call was because I got a new phone -> lost contact information, so doing that social media was the way to go. But I completely understand, thanks for your advice. I appreciate it a lot, it's great to finally be able to tell someone what I've been holding in myself and it was killing me in the inside knowing what if. But you gave me the assurances of it.

 

Id play it cool, keep some distance and be polite if you see her but be busy. Meet other friends take part in campus projects and groups or sports and dont feed her ego. She may keep friending you to feed her ego cause she knows you like her.

Or she might just be immature and not know what she wants.

Go have fun and if she wants you she will chase you. For now...try and move on and focus on you and fun and other girls too. If its meant to be it will be.

[ins]

I guess I was a bit too eager on something to happen.

 

But I completely agree with you, I want to thank you guys for all your help, you don't know how much of a weight this put on me for my entire college semester.