minimariah Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 His odd behaviour was explained when I next saw his W, and this time asked after the H. She had absolutley no compunction about telling me that her H had been f$&king the OW coworker (hadn't I heard?) and she'd kicked his sorry arse out! It actually makes me smile even now recalling her strident, unapologetic sense of openness and pride in her actions. (Knowing what I know now, I'm sure she was probably in a world of pain at that time; I can retrospectively admire her strength.) LOL! i can't even imagine how awkward that must have been. i'm confused now, LOL - did his W discover the A & dumped him or did he actually tell her & leave before she found out? So yes mini, it actually really does happen sometimes :-) trust me... i know. it happened with my parents, my father & stepmother (his fOW) have been happily married for more than a decade now. and it happens a LOT - at least around me, i see it & hear about it all the time. it's not as rare as people would like to think it is. some relationships last, some turn out to be some kind of exist affairs... but people most definitely do leave. i asked more out of curiosity, that's all. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Midwestmissy Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 The mow did lose her job - it was a family business, my h was happy to leave, but no one wanted her around anymore. My h has since left too. Since she was the breadwinner with 4 kids, she played it very poorly. She didn't have a lawsuit either, since there were a lot of lawyers willing to testify that she'd slept with them too. Not sure what she got out of this 6mo affair. She's 50 and had to take a huge pay cut. Both of their reputations are screwed up, but she has to stay in her industry, and there have been rumours about her for a long time - it may explain why she hasn't climbed very high or been promoted ever. Link to post Share on other sites
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