about ex girlfriend

[daman12]

my ex of 10 months broke up with me randomly on 10th saying she cared but wanted to be just friends... I asked why but didn't argue but was confused and upset and let her leave she took 2 things of hers from my house and gave me some clothes of mine I let her have back I didn't contact her until 3 days later to just check on her asking how she was since she was injured before our split and ended convo and left her alone for another 3 days which I spilled out feelings and how I realized a lot over the time and me giving her space being why I didn't talk to her till she was ready but I had nothing to lose spilling feelings since we were split...didn't workout she was understanding what I said and I was too but I told her couldn't be friends bc I cared and loved too much to be friends but to not think I mad at her and for her to take care and don't change.

 

Posted a pic on ig and facebook after texts over saying you truly love someone if you want them happy even if it won't with you and I said in caption I tried and fought for what I loved and was ok knowing that if it meant to be it'll work out if not then least she happy because all I wanted her to be was happy...she texts me a few hours later mad about posting on both facebook and ig because I put it on both and not just 1 because I was trying to make her look bad. I told her no I won't and I never would do that because I care and love her too much to do that she was a great person and please don't be mad at me or take it wrong way and not effect us.

 

But I did find out the texts the second time after split that her feelings had went away 2 weeks before split but she was having hard time trying to push through those feelings, but to me everything seemed fine up till split except for the 2 arguments in 1 day we had the weekend before she broke it off... throughout relationship is was great, i was one of best guys she dated treated her right and loved her and bettered her as person, her parents agree when she said i was best guy she dated and parents love me..her pops even checked up on me after split on facebook saying he had been thinking about me and hoped i was doing well and keep in touch and on the pic he commented that he believed i was great man. me and her barely argued with small argues maybe 4-5 times total within 10 months with last 2 being worst arguments out of all

 

but i started no contact again since yesterday. how does it look for me?

 

Ps.. we weren't living together but were talking about future together and 2 days before split she mentioned looking at houses for us to live in together and she also doesn't have a lot friends she talks to which I didn't tell her not to have or make friends.

[LeaveMeAlone]

my ex of 10 months broke up with me randomly on 10th saying she cared but wanted to be just friends... I asked why but didn't argue but was confused and upset and let her leave she took 2 things of hers from my house and gave me some clothes of mine I let her have back I didn't contact her until 3 days later to just check on her asking how she was since she was injured before our split and ended convo and left her alone for another 3 days which I spilled out feelings and how I realized a lot over the time and me giving her space being why I didn't talk to her till she was ready but I had nothing to lose spilling feelings since we were split...didn't workout she was understanding what I said and I was too but I told her couldn't be friends bc I cared and loved too much to be friends but to not think I mad at her and for her to take care and don't change.

 

Posted a pic on ig and facebook after texts over saying you truly love someone if you want them happy even if it won't with you and I said in caption I tried and fought for what I loved and was ok knowing that if it meant to be it'll work out if not then least she happy because all I wanted her to be was happy...she texts me a few hours later mad about posting on both facebook and ig because I put it on both and not just 1 because I was trying to make her look bad. I told her no I won't and I never would do that because I care and love her too much to do that she was a great person and please don't be mad at me or take it wrong way and not effect us.

 

But I did find out the texts the second time after split that her feelings had went away 2 weeks before split but she was having hard time trying to push through those feelings, but to me everything seemed fine up till split except for the 2 arguments in 1 day we had the weekend before she broke it off... throughout relationship is was great, i was one of best guys she dated treated her right and loved her and bettered her as person, her parents agree when she said i was best guy she dated and parents love me..her pops even checked up on me after split on facebook saying he had been thinking about me and hoped i was doing well and keep in touch and on the pic he commented that he believed i was great man. me and her barely argued with small argues maybe 4-5 times total within 10 months with last 2 being worst arguments out of all

 

but i started no contact again since yesterday. how does it look for me?

 

Ps.. we weren't living together but were talking about future together and 2 days before split she mentioned looking at houses for us to live in together and she also doesn't have a lot friends she talks to which I didn't tell her not to have or make friends.

 

 

All I can think of mate is that something quite significant must have crept up in her life for her to change her mind about the relationship so quickly.

 

You say that she had been thinking of ending it 2 weeks prior to the break up, but only 2 days ago she was talking about moving in together? That doesn't seem right, does it?

 

Unfortunately its not looking to good for you, all you can really do is stick to No Contact and let her contact you, but even them DON'T take what she says seriously. If she tells you "Omg, I'm so sorry please take me back" ask her why, don't jump back with her!

[daman12]

All I can think of mate is that something quite significant must have crept up in her life for her to change her mind about the relationship so quickly.

 

You say that she had been thinking of ending it 2 weeks prior to the break up, but only 2 days ago she was talking about moving in together? That doesn't seem right, does it?

 

Unfortunately its not looking to good for you, all you can really do is stick to No Contact and let her contact you, but even them DON'T take what she says seriously. If she tells you "Omg, I'm so sorry please take me back" ask her why, don't jump back with her!

 

would her having a lot of stress maybe been something? She was working full time and going school which she was having problems keeping up with balancing school while workin, plus bills of her own to pay. She loved her job but worked so much she didn't have much time to keep up with school or focus on.