60sdreamgirl Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 hey there, alright i guess my real question should be does it sound like he's mad at me, or just bitter? my ex and i always had a platonic type of relationship... we were taking it slow. he cheated on me, and we broke it off.... actually he still wanted to be friends, but i just cut off all contact completely. he was hurt.... but i needed space, you know? ok... so i decided maybe we should give it another go-round.... AFTER i found out he had broken up with that girl. but when i talked with him about it, he told me he already had another girlfriend! hmmm ok.... so we parted on weird terms, him thinking i totally wanted him back and feeling apparently pleased by that. because when he wanted to be friends and still have contact with me, i had shut the door in his face. anyhoo, all i did was tell him i still felt for him and maybe we should give it another try. i gave up when he said he had a girlfriend, but now he's like writing all this mean sh** about me in his online profile, like indirectly putting me down....ehh? wtf? stuff like "friend: she'll probably get ebola when she goes to south america" "him: but she's cute" "friend: oh well" "him: haha" and he knows i'm going to south america this summer to teach.... what's up with that? is he just being uber-immature? or is he trying to mask his bitterness for losing me? i mean this shows he still has feelings (bitterness, etc) towards me or something, right? or.... what do yall think Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 Why do you care what he thinks? He's just a jerk. Ignore him like you would your little brother poking you and he'll eventually stop. He's just trying to get to you. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 he just sounds immature and bitter to me. Thank your lucky stars that he is your ex. Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 It does not matter what he feels for you. You are not in a relationship with him, and by the looks of things, you don't have too much reason to be sad for that. It's a nice thought to have, that an ex still cares for you deeply, but nothing more than that. And whether he is mad, or bitter, it does not matter. Both are negative emotions; any contact you would have with him would not make you feel really happy. As for his online behavior, big deal. Most people in the world would not make the connection between him and you, let alone think that he is the mature one. Forget him, and live your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 60sdreamgirl Posted April 11, 2005 Author Share Posted April 11, 2005 yea it just kinda irks me i did nothing wrong to him, and hes still treating me like i was the one who dumped him, lol ........ i did want to be friends again at least, but i guess thats out of the question! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 He's lucky you want to talk to him at all. After all, didn't you say he cheated on you? That says enough right there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 60sdreamgirl Posted April 11, 2005 Author Share Posted April 11, 2005 yup totally, plus his rents don't like me anyway, say i'm too radical dunno if that's why he was inclined to cheat on me anyway.... but who knows Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted April 11, 2005 Share Posted April 11, 2005 I think you should stop checking up on him via his online profiles, and through other such things. Ignoring it may help, as someone else has already suggested. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted April 12, 2005 Share Posted April 12, 2005 You can never know what a man thinks or feels just by analyzing him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 60sdreamgirl Posted April 12, 2005 Author Share Posted April 12, 2005 lol wow so so true, so quotable! Link to post Share on other sites
RedTigerNY Posted April 12, 2005 Share Posted April 12, 2005 yes wel put urself in his shoes for a second. most ppl give guy too little credit here. mayb he is confused himsefl and don't know how to deal with his feelins, sometime we do not want to feel regret or like we lose out so we get angry bitter n stuf ovr time tho hel grow up so if u feel like u two had closeness and good bond befor u shouldnt deny that Link to post Share on other sites
Author 60sdreamgirl Posted April 14, 2005 Author Share Posted April 14, 2005 hey red, i don't think i see where you're coming from! Link to post Share on other sites
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