green_butterfly Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 (edited) I was in a travel website for the purpose of travelling but I met a really wonderful guy who is highly intellectual and let us say an accomplished man in his field. I was not attracted to him at first because I was talking with another guy but the connection between us was just strong we can't resist it. We talk everyday and finally he decided to visit me in the country where I am currently situated. I did google his name and I figured out his age in his profile and the dates in the information did not coincide. I know why he would do that (altering his age in his profile) so it was not a big deal for me. We've finally met and the experience was incredible. I was waiting for him to tell the truth about his age, giving him hints that I know something but not confrontational because he is the sensitive type. He would just laugh it off and his visit ended. We were in constant communication but he became insecure and he kept pushing me away saying it won't work because of our age difference, distance between us, and we have different trajectories in life. I would assure him it would work out. But there were times when I would offer to end our relationship and he would actually change topic as if he heard nothing. It made me confused of what he really wants. Finally, the day came when he confessed about his age and said I should stop writing to him, I deserve someone better. I told him I knew already and it's not a big deal with me. But he didnt replied so I assumed yeah maybe he wants to end it so I said ok if this is what you want I will stop. Two weeks gone past and I heard nothing from him. I finally sent him a msg asking how he is and all. We didnt talk about the incident and started on talking again as if nothing happened. Now I am confused, are we, are we not? Is he really into me or not? I am planning to move to his country to work there since I am the one with a flexible type of work. I am in my early twenties and he is in his early forties. Any input, opinion, or question is highly appreciated. Thank you. Edited March 22, 2015 by green_butterfly Link to post Share on other sites
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