I want to look sexy, any tips on how to do that??

[mehim]

so how do i get to looking sexy, I'm a pretty girl, but i don't think i look sexy, I'm confident about myself, i like the way i look, i just don't know how to look sexy, i'm also a bit conservitive when it comes to clothes, not to much though.

 

does anyone know or can give any tips on how to look sexy, i want to look sexy not just cute, i want to walk and the men would be like man look at that sexy mama .

 

so what is it, is make up, is it clothes, is it certain things all combined, any tips ladies and gentleman.

[Tamed Wildflower]

Hmmm... I understand sexiness as an outward presentation of your sexuality. Do what makes you FEEL sexy, and that's what sexiness will be for you. Try different types of clothes, sexy jeans, sexy skirts, dresses. Do your hair and make-up in ways that make YOU look in the mirror and say, "Damn! Sexy Mama!!" Dress yourself up in ways that make you want to strut. If you know you look good, and if you feel like your sexuality is ALIVE, you will project an enticing sensuality that will turn heads, NO, SPIN HEADS!!

 

To me, this is better advice than telling you exactly what to wear, or how to do your make-up, but I'm interested in what others have to say.

[bubblygrl5]

I asked my friends the same Q about how to look sexy! I always get pretty, or cute, but never SEXY! I think it's cause I'm not super tall. I don't know tho.

 

Maybe throw some jewelry in there, or some tighter jeans, strappy shoes...cute skirts...tank tops...

 

 

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[erika2610]

Originally posted by Tamed Wildflower

Hmmm... I understand sexiness as an outward presentation of your sexuality. Do what makes you FEEL sexy, and that's what sexiness will be for you. Try different types of clothes, sexy jeans, sexy skirts, dresses. Do your hair and make-up in ways that make YOU look in the mirror and say, "Damn! Sexy Mama!!" Dress yourself up in ways that make you want to strut. If you know you look good, and if you feel like your sexuality is ALIVE, you will project an enticing sensuality that will turn heads, NO, SPIN HEADS!!

 

To me, this is better advice than telling you exactly what to wear, or how to do your make-up, but I'm interested in what others have to say.

 

I'd say a big part of it is attitude.. how you carry yourself. I've asked a few guy friends and they say the same thing.. How to carry yourself. Confidence. Be yourself. And the thing they find specially sexy? When girls approach them

[erika2610]

If you're confident enough & carry yourself well.. you could look sexy in sweats.

Nothin sexier than confidence..

[sami]

Feeling sexy is a state of mind. If you don't have enough confidance in what you have, no one will pass it down to you. It's like a man positive or negative feeling as to whether he is good enough for his girl. It's all in our minds. We will continue to doubt ourselves due to our lack of confidance.

[RecordProducer]

Sexy is when you ooze sex from inside. Body language, body posture, the way you talk to guys, the way you smile, look, drink, smoke, etc. Try to imitate some actresses and see what they do and what suits you best. Some women flirt, some are naughty, some are sensual...so you will have to fake it 'till you make it. When you feel the feedback, you'll start feeling sexy on the inside and won't have to act anymore.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by RecordProducer

Sexy is when you ooze sex from inside. Body language, body posture, the way you talk to guys, the way you smile, look, drink, smoke, etc.

 

wear heels a lot. that is the one single thing u can do to pump up the sexy look.

 

BTW, R.R. here is my pic, it'll be up for 15 minutes or so.

[Marshbear]

Long Hair, Tight Jeans and Tops, Pouty Mouth, Attitude, Sexy Walk, Confidence, Outgoing, Eye Contact, A Certain Flair About Yourself.....

[HotCaliGirl]

Tight clothes, lipstick, long hair, heals, confidence and a SMILE = sexy!

Have fun!

[mehim]

lets see what i got, confidence, smile, the heels, the jeans, no long hair, I'm a little shy about wearing tops that show a lot of skin, i just don't like that, don't wear lipstick. well thats about what i got, i know its mostly about the way a girl carries herself, i feel good about myself, but just not sexy. I'm going to try and work on some of the suggestions u helpful people here, thank you.

 

mehim.

[EC]

You don't have to be half naked to be sexy. I agree with the other posters ATTITUDE!! Its all about how you walk, talk, carry yourself.

 

Wearing heels always makes me feel sexy (just putting them on changes my whole appearance, the way I walk, my posture) , or skirts, my hair blowdried straight, and earings. I like to have my nails and toes painted as well, If not I dont feel sexy

 

I also agree that lots of eye contact and smiling make a woman sexier. Also Perfume and underwear.

I can be wearing a paper bag, but if I have on nice perfume and sexy underwear underneath, I will feel and act sexy.

[Naive]

It does have A LOT to do with how you carry yourself!!! The way you feel about yourself. If you don't believe you are sexy no one else will.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by ~Naive~

The way you feel about yourself. If you don't believe you are sexy no one else will.

I totally disagree with the above stmt ~NAIVE~. I have met a number of extremely sexy women who do not think they are sexy at all. Low self esteem or a negative self-image would account for that.

[FolderWife]

Wear a tight shirt and stuff your bra...unless you are well endowed...in which case, wear a push up bra.

 

Wear a skirt that is at LEAST above the knees. And ALWAYS wear high heels.

 

flats are "cute"

[sami]

I have never thought that "underwears" have anything to do with feeling sexy. This's very new to me.

[sweetey147]

lol yea i also believe that underwear has alot to do with it because i am so picky when i pick them out and excited to wear them. You can't tell me walking around with the sexiest outfit on and old rags as underwear still makes you feel sexy, well in my situation it doesnt.

 

I'm with everyone that says Attitude has almost everything to do with feeling sexy. Lack of confidence, most guys dont like. To be sexy ya gotta feel sexy and when you feel sexy it's gonna start oozing!!

[EC]

I have never thought that "under wears" have anything to do with feeling sexy. This's very new to me.

 

Well maybe not for everyone but for me its a huge part of feeling sexy. I start with the underwear, then move on to the outfit, then shoes, then make-up and hair and accessories. If I have on a great outfit with old rageddy underwear (not that I own any ) I would not feel sexy at all.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

I used to have short hair, then I grew it all out and I would get alot of looks and attention that I was never used to. I cut it just above shoulder length, and all the attention stopped.

 

It is now almost half way down my back and you would not believe how many double-takes I get from guys (even guys in their 20's!!)

 

I still shy away cuz that's just me but it makes me feel sexy!

[EC]

I used to have short hair, then I grew it all out and I would get alot of looks and attention that I was never used to. I cut it just above shoulder length, and all the attention stopped.

 

It is now almost half way down my back and you would not believe how many double-takes I get from guys (even guys in their 20's!!)

 

I still shy away cuz that's just me but it makes me feel sexy

 

Its alllll about the underwear and HAIR!! lol

 

No but seriously I had really really long super hair and I would get tons of attention. But then I cut it to my chin and it just stopped! It was nuts. Now its growing..but not even nearly as long as I had it, and Im getting attention again. lol I want it to grow longer so that I can dye it dark.

 

I always feel sexier with dark hair.

[Naive]

Originally posted by alphamale

 

I totally disagree with the above stmt ~NAIVE~. I have met a number of extremely sexy women who do not think they are sexy at all. Low self esteem or a negative self-image would account for that.

 

 

WOW, how could this be???? Alpha has actually agreed with me on something!!!!

[mehim]

i have confidence in myself, i don't have low self esteem what so ever. the thing with the underwear, is true, but its not so big for me.

 

as the hair goes, i just cut my hair little below the shoulder, but its curly, so i don't think that makes some people look so sexy, maybe more innocent, just my opinion.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

after I grew my hair, I went out and bought new matching bra and pantie sets.

[Ms_Sweetness]

I don't have long hair (a little above the shoulder) and I still get lots of attention. Hmmm, I wonder if I grew my hair really long if I would get even more attention. THat's something I may conduct research on!!