Sidewalk Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I have come to a firm belief that men who ask women out on dates are needy. If you really want to show her that you are a tough guy then do not ask her out. By not asking a woman out who genuinely likes you it conveys the impression to her that you don't need her. Women are attracted to men who at least act like they don't need them. That's one of the reasons I stopped asking women out. As time goes on I find more reasons not to ask women out even if they are throwing strong green lights all over the place. I feel I am doing the right thing. At the rate I am going it is going to take me 5000 years to ask this one woman out that I have been crushing on for the better part of 7 months. I am ready to go another 7 months just playing the sneak peek games with her. I don't care if someone puts a gun to my head threatening to kill me if I don't ask her out. I would rather blow my hand off than ask a woman out on a date. I wouldn't care if our Military had programs that would penalize solider's for not asking women out such as being ordered to do extra push-ups for not asking a woman out. For some men that kind of boot camp training might work as an incentive to get them to ask women out but not for me. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Well, I guess if you ever do get together by osmosis, it will either be very exciting and worth the wait or very much anticlimactic. No pun intended. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
GoldieLox Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I am ready to go another 7 months just playing the sneak peek games with her. I don't care if someone puts a gun to my head threatening to kill me if I don't ask her out. I would rather blow my hand off than ask a woman out on a date. Men who play games are a huge turn-off for a lot of women. Good luck with that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sidewalk Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 Ideally I want a woman to say "what took you so long to ask me out?" That's the ideal words that all men want to hear. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sidewalk Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 Men who play games are a huge turn-off for a lot of women. Good luck with that. Depends on how a man plays the game. If he makes it too obvious that he is playing games then sure women get turned off. He is not doing it right. For example if you are going to do favors for your crush make sure you are willing to do those same favors for other friends or work colleagues. This way your actions aren't that suspicious. That's what I do now. I don't treat her with more or less kindness than the others. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Have you had success with this so far? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sidewalk Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 Have you had success with this so far? Depends on what you mean by success? If it means that I have been spared from humiliating situations then yes. If it means that women respect me and still enjoy working with me and think highly of me as a work colleague partner then yes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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