Author Gaeta Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 - why did your marriage end? Oufff, you don't want to open that door. Lets say I married my 1st boyfriend I met him at 17. Married at 20, a mother at 21. He was in the army and we moved a lot, I was alone alot, he was an aggressive man and had phases of being very abusive and controlling. We made it 15 years. I don't like talking bad about him now that he is dead. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gaeta Posted March 29, 2015 Author Share Posted March 29, 2015 So I messaged him yesterday at 5h. I said I understood he did not with to pursue and that is alright these things happened but I would like to know if I had done or said something negative as I'd like to correct myself for next time I meet someone. He never replied. Can we agree he is more a weirdo than I am here. Thank you all again for punching in and helping me sort through it. The new man I was suppose to meet this weekend had to head out of town to visit his mother. We will probably meet tonight upon his return or tomorrow. I am almost certain that will generate a new thread ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted March 29, 2015 Share Posted March 29, 2015 So I messaged him yesterday at 5h. I said I understood he did not with to pursue and that is alright these things happened but I would like to know if I had done or said something negative as I'd like to correct myself for next time I meet someone. He never replied. Can we agree he is more a weirdo than I am here. *cough* Yes we can! And you're not a weirdo by any stretch of the imagination. Thank you all again for punching in and helping me sort through it. The new man I was suppose to meet this weekend had to head out of town to visit his mother. We will probably meet tonight upon his return or tomorrow. I am almost certain that will generate a new thread ;-) Ugh! Looks like you already have one potential thing to get past if you were supposed to meet. Easy way around that is to ask him about his Mum, ask why he went and if she is OK. See if he provides details. People who skim over events tend not to have any details about them simply because they weren't there. They cannot elaborate upon something they didn't do. Link to post Share on other sites
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