Broken

[sexitif]

I am an emotional wreck since loosing my Mother to cancer last year,had been with my ex for 5 years.Sure he had a crap job and I had a good one so I really paid for everything. On 10th March I had a total breakdown and told him we were done (because he wouldn't make me his wife) really thought we would talk but no,next thing I knew was him bragging about F**king strippers on twitter! He has humiliated and made a fool out of me.

[TMichaels]

You need to deal with your mother's death. Grief counseling will help you get your head sorted out.

 

 

If your mother was in a hospital or some other sort of facility or hospice before her passing, this organization no doubt has social workers that provide grief counseling to family members -- free of charge.

 

 

Don't put it off. Check into it so you are able to deal your grief and heal.

 

 

Best,

TMichaels

[justwhoiam]

TMichaels gave you good advice for the grieving part.

 

I had a total breakdown and told him we were done (because he wouldn't make me his wife) really thought we would talk but no,next thing I knew was him bragging about F**king strippers on twitter! He has humiliated and made a fool out of me.

Maybe that was his personal reaction to being dumped by his long-term girlfriend. Can you really judge him? I know, we almost always want the guy running after us, but we must own our decision. You gave him an ultimatum and you dumped him. Men can hardly stand threats. And it would have been a bad decision if he had proposed to you just because you demanded/ordered it. He probably wanted it to happen in a different way when the moment would come. Men have pride. And who knows what else went through his mind, like: I was by her side, I supported her, etc. and look what I got. It's not unusual for a guy to do crazy things after a breakup. It's also a way to deal with feeling lonely. But it doesn't mean it's working.