Hope Shimmers Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Not hard to connect those dots. You are going to sleep with another man and decide to tell him that, and suddenly he loves you and you are the one for him. Do you seriously believe that was a coincidence? Wow. Men are so linear. BTW, to the other poster who mentioned getting multiple prescriptions for Plan B.... Plan B is available without a prescription in the States. It's behind the pharmacy counter so it has to be requested and the pharmacist has to dispense it. But no prescription is needed. Not sure where the OP is located. And OP, if you are as mature as you claim to be, please find a better method of birth control. This is not responsible. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Well unfortunately I have no other outlet for this situation im in so im back to ramble even if I do end up on the receiving end of some unpleasant responses. Up to speed. My married boss and I have been building our relationship for about five months or so. Over the last month I have removed my bc implant bc i want my body to regulate before i replace it again. I see him every day and its been extremely difficult to not engage each other physically... so we have. Three times now. Ive taken plan B twice in the last two weeks which is awful I know. ive never felt like i have so little control when really i have all the control. I literally cant go a day without him and vice versa and we just scramble aaround like "why are we such losers for each other?". Ive had probably two long term relationships. A boyfriend of mine for four years when i was younger who has passed away too soon. And another i lived with/dated for about three years. My old love that died in 2011 was the love of my life and im not big to rush into emotions so strong but this MM just.. does something to me. Now im just sitting around seriously hoping that this doesnt get complicated moreso with a pregnancy because of stupid decisions on our part. Has anyone out there had a child/abortion from their MM? Why can't you just use condoms? I think that would make your life far simpler than anticipating future abortions, when it's not that out of your control whether or not you put yourself in that position. You should also perhaps talk to your doctor about whether or not there is any medical merit to the idea of taking out BC then allowing your body to regulate before putting it back in. I am not an expert but it sounds off to me, so I'd double check if this is even a sound line of thinking that way if it isn't you can get back on it as soon as possible (or use condoms) so you don't ever end up finding out what it's like to have an abortion for MM. Link to post Share on other sites
Hope Shimmers Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Why can't you just use condoms? I think that would make your life far simpler than anticipating future abortions, when it's not that out of your control whether or not you put yourself in that position. You should also perhaps talk to your doctor about whether or not there is any medical merit to the idea of taking out BC then allowing your body to regulate before putting it back in. I am not an expert but it sounds off to me, so I'd double check if this is even a sound line of thinking that way if it isn't you can get back on it as soon as possible (or use condoms) so you don't ever end up finding out what it's like to have an abortion for MM. Yeah, I'm not getting that either. Why did you take it out in the first place? What do you mean, 'regulate'? You are better off leaving it in. Link to post Share on other sites
goodyblue Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Can I ask how old you are? Your posts come off as very immature (such as you could help having unprotected sex...yes you could, you just chose not to use protection). Using Plan B as birth control is incredibly immature behavior and it wasn't "created" to be used that way. It astounds me the lack of respect you have for your body. Your posts indicate to me that you DO want to get pregnant by him, as you think this will tie him to you. Look at the subject of your thread..if you really didn't want to get pregnant, why even ask if others have? You do know that you can get std's from u protects sex, right? You do know he can be a carrier of an STD and transmit it to you even if he is not showing signs of it, right? I get the impression this isn't his first affair, so you are "getting" anything he may have picked up along the way. I was trying to figure out how you could "see" his alleged pain of knowing you were going to have sex with an ex, when you were communicating via text. And what was your motivation for telling him you were going to have sex with an ex? Was it to get a reaction out of him? Were you hoping he would get jealous? Did it make you feel wanted to/cared for because he didn't want you having sex with someone besides him? Texting someone ILY is hardly this big declaration of love, but obviously it had quite an effect on you. I don't believe it for a second, that he loves you, he just doesn't want to share you....even though he has sex with his wife, in addition to you. I would bet he has unprotected sex with his wife, so you are definitely sharing fluids with her. I hope you talk to a doctor (can't believe a doctor keeps prescribing Plan B without having a discussion of how it isn't to be used as birth control)because you are doing a lot of damage to your body all because you couldn't wait 30 seconds and have him out a condom on. I have never used Plan B but hear it is h+ll on your hormone levels. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 I've seen at least 6 threads on LS I can specifically recall (and probably another 2 dozen which have blurred with time), where the OW is impregnated by MM and bears the child. Any child is a gift, and I believe you do far better by any future child to choose a good, decent, and honest father for him/her, who is willing and able to be there 100%. Most MM who get their OW won't even openly acknowledge paternity, let alone actually assume a father role. And the success rate for OW in prying MM loose from the BW via childbirth (based on LS stats) is 0.00%. Most pregnant OW end up with bus tracks on their back, sorry to say. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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