I might be over him finaly

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Ok so past month i went through a major crises in my way to getting over.

I had moments when I missed him terribly and moments when I did not even care about him.

I think I am over him now. I hope so.

I don`t really miss him anymore and even when I think about him I only remember bad things he did or said.

I don`t consider him that special anymore.

I even see things I never saw before. I some other way.

I was thinking about him intensely 2 days ago and I had this strange feeling like I don`z know him. I think I never knew him at all.

I felt like I was thinking about some stranger. Very very distant.

I tried to think how it would be to make love to him. And I felt this feeling of disgust. ( weird ? )

Well anyhow I asked myself what was I suffering about all this time and I had no proper answer.

I really really think I am over him finally. And I don`t even want to think about him any longer bc it is not in my interest wondering what is he up to. I don`t care anymore. I don`t feel anger for him anymore. Actually I feel nothing foe him.

CHEERS!

[westernxer]

Sounds like a normal withdrawal to me.

 

Keep it up.

[Naive]

The way I see it is; if you still take the time to post about him there is still something there........

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Naive:

I `ve postedbc i was told to update my story when i first posted here.

And bc I want all this ladies to know that eventually there is an end to suffering.

And that`s just it

[whichwayisup]

Keep busy ww, go out and ENJOY yourself. Hobbies, movies, books, hang with friends, flirt with cute guys, go for a massage, swim, dance...Continue concentrating on you now. He isn't a factor anymore and never wonder about him...He isn't worth it.

[MiChick43]

I did not see a set forum to do an introduce myself. I wish I had found this place three years ago when my ex left. Reading many of the posts here remind me of what I have been through over the years. I am currently in an exclusive relationship with what seems to be pretty normal. It is so normal its almost boring. Anyway I just wanted to say hello and give a brief history, and then start asking questions....I have many.

 

three years ago I went through, what I thought, was the end of all ends of my life. My guy took off with another woman *gasp* I honestly, this is so embarrassing, grabbed his legs and begged him not to leave *turning red* It took about three months and getting angry and not sad to get a moving forward in my life. I then started online dating and met a guy that I thought was mr. wonderful He had three dtrs, all took to me right away and I loved them in return. Six months later *Im slow* I found out he was still sleeping with their mother. Very sick and codependent relationship. I ended things. At that time my ex that left for the OW called and wanted to come back. By then I was strong enough and liked myself enough to say no way. But , serously, I loved the fact that he wanted to leave the OW so soon and come back to me and it felt great to say no. At that point I decided to take some time off from relationships and figure out what I was doing to attract these men and just took the time I needed to improve myself. One year ago I met a wonderful man, Im still with him, that has treated me like a princess. He has worked hard in trying to build my trust and has given me all the space ive needed at the same time. He has asked me to marry him and Ive accepted but I am not rushing into anything. I still have some personal issues to deal with. Most of which I hope I can post about here and get some advice. Thanks for listening......