aliveagain Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I still don't believe the parents will help. They know her just as good as myself and they know she is breaking because she is having to be accountable for the first time in her life. They have bailed her out repeatedly throughout her life. She tried to bait me last night no doubt. However, realizing I had recording was a gamechanger. I've literally been holding my phone the last month and recording everything. She thought I was just protecting my phone. I'm going to get a couple of VAR's today. She won't have a clue. My ex did the same thing, she tried to get me to hit her in front of the nanny and her two young sons. She followed me around the house screaming at me just inch's from my face. She used her kickboxing moves where she puts the flat of her foot against my stomach and pushed me against walls. I finally had to lock myself in my car and called the police, they could hear her screaming at me in the background of the call. That was the only thing that kept me out of jail that night because she sure acted differently when the police arrived. Have 911 on speed dial. You asked "why the anger and hostility" because you are no longer acting the way she wants you to act, your not acting like a betrayed spouse. You forgot how entitled she is. Your out of her control and things are getting real serious and fast. Let your lawyer deal with her, 180 and detach. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bamawsp Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 (edited) All documentation and recordings are with the attorney. It's in his hands. One poignant moment from last night is that right before 10pm she tells me quietly, "It is over. I am done." My response as I walked up the stairs was "good." Edited April 1, 2015 by bamawsp Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 ^^ She's become verbally and emotionally abusive. You still share a home? It sounds like the environment in the home has become extremely toxic. I think you and your children need to get away from that as soon as possible. You have filed for divorce. Are you seeking full custody? Joint custody? Do you have a co-parenting agreement? I think the sooner you and your wife stop spending time together the sooner she will stop this toxic, erratic behavior and stop being confrontational and inappropriate in front of your children. I think separating physically is job 1. Seeking a restraining order is 1A. I would get out of the home, make your children your top priority right now and move on with your life. The only contact I'd have with STBXW would be regarding your children and whatever you need to do to get the divorce over and done with. If her name is on the house too he can't just lock her out. But I do believe you should try to get sole custody OP, your W shouldn't be around your kids unsupervised, much less with AP around. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bamawsp Posted April 1, 2015 Author Share Posted April 1, 2015 So I've discussed the issue with my attorney. He believes there is enough evidence for an order of exclusive right to the marital property for me and the kids. She fricking lost it last night. He said he wanted to ponder it overnight and we will decide what to do in the morning. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Friskyone4u Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Bama, I have followed your thread from the beginning and think you have done great every step of the way, including exploding it. no matter what you did you wife does not give a **** about the kids so unless you sat there and let her do what she wanted to she was going to get them involved on her terms anyway. Hopefully, your attorney will get this lunatic out of your life as quickly as possible with your kids away from her. Hang in there. You are near the finish line. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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