Proof my wife is cheating

[I_Give_Up67]

Hey JC, thanks for the update bro! I was thinking of you just today, wondering how things were going for you. It will all be over before you know it!

[Jclements00]

Thanks I know it will be very soon. I leave her alone and she leaves me alone except if we need to talk about taxes or moving out. I'm just at that point where I move out and none of this will bother me it'll be so nice having my own place I can keep clean without her or her kids messing it up. And so quiet no noise no wife coming home late at night all drunk wanting to talk. I'm sure she's gonna try talking to me when she's drunk but the good thing is I can ignore her and she doesn't know exactly where I'm moving. The only one here I really don't mind living with is her 14 year old daughter she's quiet and more mature and growing into a beautiful smart lady quicker than she should thanks to mom not being around all the time. As I speak my wife is passed out on the sofa I tried getting her to bed she got an attitude said no and I yelled at her to get up but her meds make her all loopy so I let her be. Not worth the fight. I just wanted to chill and watch my tv but I can chill in the bedroom on my comp instead.

[I_Give_Up67]

JC, just look at it this way... in couple of weeks, you will be able to throw your very own house party. You should put the word out that you are about be a single man again very soon. Though technically you will still be married until the divorce is finalized, I doubt anyone would fault you for meeting a few ladies in the meanwhile. My advice for whatever it's worth, don't stay out of the game too long. Get back out there as soon as you feel up to it.

[Jclements00]

I've already told my friends and co-workers I def plan in throwing a BBQ drunken get together once I'm settled in. I don't want any serious relationship for a long while but I do check out the dating sites to see what's around and keep my eyes open for the single ladies around.

[Jclements00]

I'm going spend all day Saturday with some friends for my boys' birthday and they got a waterslide. I know his wife will have a bunch of women over a lot married but some not and that means time to rip the shirt off show the muscles and mingle my butt off.

[I_Give_Up67]

This is what I'm talking about! You have to take advantage of all possibilities in your own social networks. All you have to do is just hangout and have a little fun at the same time. Let the ladies see you are soon to be single again.

[Jclements00]

Heck yeah I'm gonna be on the prowl. I don't want a relationship just some kind of action you know what I mean.

[I_Give_Up67]

Heck yeah I'm gonna be on the prowl. I don't want a relationship just some kind of action you know what I mean.

 

 

Well I think you've earned it bro! Just play it cool, and you might be surprised at what you find.

[Jclements00]

I'm pretty sure most of the women there will be married and probably with their husbands. What gets me is a few of the women are like seriously super hotties and their husbands are just regular out of shape guys and not judging but to me are more on the ugly side. Like wth I work my butt off in the gym and like to think I'm in pretty good shape and have a nice body. There's one chick that'll be there who's brother I worked with and is cool with so I have to lead in with that cause she is smoking hot and I believe single. A lot of the gals and guys I've known or known of since high school or before. I'm ready to kick back drink a few and mingle my butt off.

[Jclements00]

So in another update my soon to be ex has a notebook she writes in and hides it from me of course she left it out the other night so I read it and lo and behold I find what I already knew. Her talking about her girl and their immature problems and how she told her the other night they could have sex but she was worried cause she wouldn't be drinking before which is a BS lie to my face when she says she isn't sleeping with anyone. And says they gonna try to live together awhile this summer when her kids are away to see they do. Which she tells her kids and me she will not live with anyone for a long time and the kids are worried it'll happen soon. Just shows more what a complete liar she is and how little her kids matter to her. I haven't said anything to her about it and I really don't care to go there cause it's who she is and karma has a funny way of taking care of people like her. I leave her alone now I don't even text her unless necessary and I only have two weeks until I move out anyway and forget this whole marriage. Oh and she asked me if she had the money to file for separation before 180 days if I would lie about living apart longer. I don't want to stay married any longer than I have to but I'll be dumb if I lie and we get caught. I'm gonna do the separation and divorce the right way to ensure once it's over it's over and I never have to deal with this horrible liar again.

[I_Give_Up67]

JC, isn't it still devastating to finally see the proof of what you've known all along?

 

Remember those words the next time you start to feel like you owe her something.

[Jclements00]

No it's not devastating cause I been knowing how she felt and what she does. I don't feel like I owe her anything and obviously she feels she owes me nothing. I move out and move on plain and simple.

[Jclements00]

So tonight the girl I shouldn't have married texts me and says her girlfriend is coming get some prescription pills she has. Then says she's not and I say I wondered why she'd have her get them when she's addicted to pills. Well my soon to be girl I never knew sends back a F you text saying don't talk about her. I say ok. A while later there's a banging on the door I yell who is it and her girlfriend is saying open the door. I open and she starts going on if I got something to say about her say it to her face and I say I don't give a F about her who is she to come banging on my door. Then my ex drunk wife walks in starts yelling at me in my face and of course I yell back a lot louder saying I don't know her girlfriend and don't give a F about her neither one of you will come her yelling at me in my home I pay the bills at.

 

So my ex garbage is in my face yelling not to ever talk about her girlfriend again or she's gonna fight me and end up in jail which is ridiculous cause she's 115 of bones and I'm 200 of muscle. She's yelling that I'm jealous she found someone who makes her happy when I didn't and I say go ahead and think I'm jealous if you feel better I could care less. At this point I'm holding back not head butting this jerk and breaking bones in two girls. I know better than to do that but it was hard not to. I ask her girlfriend if she got anything she wants to say and she says nothing. My garbage ex is yelling for me to move out she don't want me yadda yadda and I say don't worry in two weeks I'm gone and out your life and you can be happy struggling to pay your bills on your $8 job. I said don't worry you'll get what's coming and I won't do anything karma will. She storms out yelling she hates me and leaves. Of course I yelled back every curse word in the dictionary but calmed down and just wanted her to leave. It's all cause she's drunk and she won't come back tonight so I get to be here alone. She also thinks I'll be alone and miserable while she'll be all happy. So her struggling having to deal with a pill addict girlfriend, a family who hates she's lesbian and kids who despise her for ignoring them makes her happy? And me living alone without her BS and being able to get with other women and save money by not supporting a family makes me miserable?

 

So what I'm gonna do is move out in two weeks. Not talk or text her at all. I will pay rent next week only the least possible, I won't pay on any back rent. She's gonna be stuck with it and my landlord has said it will be on her if I don't pay it. Also we have a deep freezer full of meat she hasn't cooked any off in four months. She's saving it for when I'm gone. I'm taking at least half of it when I move. Also after I move her dad will get some pictures of proof and truth that she's a lesbian as she won't tell him due to being afraid he will hate it cause he's against that stuff. She has lied cheated used me and now coming here yelling at me with her girlfriend in my home is where the line has been drawn. I won't acknowledge she exists anymore and she won't see it coming but I'm gonna pull that rug right from underneath her feet.

[Cephalopod]

Wow. You have a very interesting life.

[Jclements00]

Lol yes I do for tonight. For the 10 minutes the trash I married was yelling. Things have actually been civil and quiet lately so I guess it was time she got drunk and flipped her lid. I hate all the drama she brings and that's the best part of all this. Two weeks and I move out to live a drama free life.

[Jclements00]

Quick update I move out next weekend and it will be great!

[Jclements00]

I probably won't be able to afford a bed for a week or two unless I wanna sleep on someone else's used nasty crusty hump stains but I did find a very nice sofa for $75 I can sleep on in the meantime. And my soon to be ex is so stupid she asks me to get her food from Burger King like wth I ain't no delivery service. And now she wants to be nice and talk and help me pack. I have no care whatsoever to hear anything out her ugly mouth.

[aliveagain]

There will come a time believe it or not when your soon to be ex won't take up anymore space in your head. There will come a time when you won't even think of her for years. You won't even remember how she smells. You won't care about what she is doing, who she's with, where she lives, what she drives or even if she is well. You will almost forget she was ever in your life. Unfortunately, you will never forget what she did to you, that will be with you for life.

 

Today when I think of my ex I immediately think two things, first is cheater, second is affair child. I have to force myself to think really hard about any other memories, good or bad. Time has a way of helping you deal with traumatic things that happen in your life. I think this is some kind of survival mechanism that everyone has so we can live out the rest of our lives. All you have to do is make it through the next weekend.

[Jclements00]

Oh I know time will make it all disappear. At least I'm not depressed about this as I got over it pretty quickly once I realized she cared less about me and had her girlfriend she does what she wants with. Whatever consequences she suffers because of it will be out of my hands and I won't be around if things go bad for her. I don't need the drama in my life and I only need to worry about myself now. She wants me gone been wanting me gone so I don't need to feel bad for leaving where I'm not wanted. She chose her actions knowing it hurt me in the process and has even tried to get me to forgive her so she can feel better about what she did. The best thing I can do is move out move on and don't look back.

[I_Give_Up67]

JC keep doing what you are doing, it will work out for you in the long run! By the way, you can sleep on the floor, the sofa, or eat from paper plates for that matter, as long as you are out of that situation.

 

Good luck brother!

[Jclements00]

Well I'm paying for a nice couch today that I'm picking up Saturday. I have plates utensils pots pans all kitchen appliances already I really just need a bed curtains for windows and rugs. And cleaning supplies. And food to survive.

[Jclements00]

This sob has her girlfriend sleep over last night. I had already fallen asleep when she texted me telling me that and that they weren't sleeping in the same bed. Yeah right they both slept in her kids bed that's just wrong but she says they didn't touch each other. I don't care I texted her a whole lot of curse words telling her how a few days before I move out she disrespects me by doing that and I won't put up with her bs anymore she can use and lie to someone else.

[66Charger]

That is just plain wrong. That was done on purpose. They couldnt wait a 2 days. Had to rub it in your face. Cheaters are the worst. They have no morals or honor.

In the future, she will ask for help. Remember last night when that happens

[Chi townD]

The very day you move out; get settled and then go to your phone carrier and GET YOUR NUMBER CHANGED!!! Guarantee you that she will continue to text and call after you leave. She'll text you that you left something there and what do you want her to do with it. When the rent comes due and she's strapped for cash, she call you saying that you owe her money for something. You see it coming and I see it coming. So, it would be in your best interest to get a new number.

[Jclements00]

I have to keep in contact with her for tax reasons we're still waiting on two checks to come and for the divorce. As for her texting me after asking for money she isn't the type who will bother me with it or say I owe her money as there's nothing I would owe her for at all. Once I leave we will both be happier at least I will.