GemmaUK Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 I'm with loveweary11, i'm not gonna be complaining. Its a free world, women can wear what they want. If it happens to make them look hot...i'll suffer that...y'know in the name of free choice an all! Haha made me laugh. My mums been on my case about rolling my sleeves up since I was about 8! "It creases/stretches your shirt Alfie"..."roll them down it looks smarter".. Even now when we go out to dinner - hell even on my wedding day she was trying to roll my sleeves down Makes me laugh! Long sleeves annoy me though, even in the cold. If you were a woman you would be 'pups out' !! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Why do women like to show cleavage?. Is it to make them feel sexy? and the attention? they get. If they do then they shouldn't complain about men stareing at them. all of the above Link to post Share on other sites
Shepp Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 If you were a woman you would be 'pups out' !! Hahaha reckon my poor mum would of liked that even less! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Haha made me laugh. My mums been on my case about rolling my sleeves up since I was about 8! "It creases/stretches your shirt Alfie"..."roll them down it looks smarter".. Even now when we go out to dinner - hell even on my wedding day she was trying to roll my sleeves down Makes me laugh! Long sleeves annoy me though, even in the cold. Ah, yes, your mama knew about girls like me 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Seriously, who doesn't have some fun with their body/face/eyes/words? It is just fun! I couldn't be without flirting and banter....not ever..til I freakin' die!! 90 yo women are huge flirts...I will be one if I make it that far... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
E-Squared Posted April 1, 2015 Share Posted April 1, 2015 Okay, can anybody explain about why some women wear shirts that show their stomach? Not that I mind, but wouldn't that draw attention as well? I remember a girl I had a class with wore a shirt that went up to her bra-line. It bared her whole stomach but covered up her boobs and was almost like a T-shirt. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 I have DD's. It's hard for me not to show cleavage. I dunno why though really...I never think about it, just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 I have a large chest and any large amount of cleavage looks sloppy on me. Alternately, very high neck shirts then have so much fabric that I start to look bulky and boxy in that area. So I compromise by choosing tops with a slightly lower neckline, while stopping before that cleavage "crack" starts to show. That way I can still feel attractive, without getting inappropriate attention. All about balance. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 It's kind of like reverse psychology, deep down they LOVE the attention, but are only PRETENDING to get upset. That's the way it seems to me––obviously seeking sexual attention. But then expect it only from men they consider attractive, guised as friendly non-sexual interest, and of course we're not supposed to get caught actually looking. I'm not talking about all women, of course, just a certain ones. I work with one nice young woman who is quite well-endowed and wears loose-fitting low-cut tops. She often positions herself directly across the table and leans forward at the waist to write. There is just no way I can avoid getting an eye full when she does that, and no way she could be naive enough to think I'm not noticing––I'd have to be blindfolded! She never tries to catch me looking, and I never let on. After she gives me a show there will always be smiling, banter and eye contact. She knows what she's doing and is enjoys it as much as I do. I think it's nice of her to be so generous. I wonder if she just wants indirect validation or if she wants me to hit on her. Link to post Share on other sites
hotpotato Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 Sometimes women cant help it. Ive known a few skinny girls with naturally very large breasts. Those puppies can be hard to hide. They could wear some generic top, and theyd have cleavage. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 To work the system... I had to go to the city Planning Department today to reconnaissance some building information. Now I'm a middle-aged woman who is now a bit overweight. But I've still got a big chest and you better know that I worked it! Wearing a tight, low-cut sweater, I went asking questions when a portly, middle-aged guy asked what I was trying to do. After a brief explanation, he took me to a different floor, advised me to wait a minute, and left to get a head inspector to help me. As it turns out, the first guy who helped me was the Assistant Director and the inspector who spent time with me also flirted. In my case today, my cleavage probably saved me several hours of waiting in line to a few minutes-worth of questions. :p 2 Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted April 2, 2015 Share Posted April 2, 2015 (edited) It's kind of like reverse psychology, deep down they LOVE the attention, but are only PRETENDING to get upset. This is sick. just tell yourself whatever you need to justify being a pervert. That's the way it seems to me––obviously seeking sexual attention. But then expect it only from men they consider attractive, guised as friendly non-sexual interest, and of course we're not supposed to get caught actually looking. I'm not talking about all women, of course, just a certain ones. The viewpoint that these women are "obviously seeking sexual attention" is what I am uncomfortable with hearing. It sounds too much like rape victims "asking for it" and the irrelevant questions such as "what was she wearing to provoke the attack?" We have boobs, get over it. Are you saying that if a woman IS seeking sexual attention from potential men that she finds attractive, she must accept sexual attention from those she does not want it from? How about men refrain from giving unwanted sexual attention to women until you get the green light that she is interested? Is that too much to ask? I don't walk up to men I don't know and grab their butt or start talking dirty to them (regardless of how nice his biceps look in that tight fitting tshirt). It's just a tad improper. Edited April 2, 2015 by smiley1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 (edited) This is sick. just tell yourself whatever you need to justify being a pervert. The viewpoint that these women are "obviously seeking sexual attention" is what I am uncomfortable with hearing. It sounds too much like rape victims "asking for it" and the irrelevant questions such as "what was she wearing to provoke the attack?" We have boobs, get over it. Are you saying that if a woman IS seeking sexual attention from potential men that she finds attractive, she must accept sexual attention from those she does not want it from? How about men refrain from giving unwanted sexual attention to women until you get the green light that she is interested? Is that too much to ask? I don't walk up to men I don't know and grab their butt or start talking dirty to them (regardless of how nice his biceps look in that tight fitting tshirt). It's just a tad improper. We're not talking about physically grabbing/groping people...we're just talking about looking / checking them out. Don't be so dramatic. Anyhow, remember that fake video clip where a woman walked around the city and men were trying to talk to her and compliment her and it created a big stir of controversy on the internet? Some of my friends posted about this, one of them being an attractive female friend of mine that said, "I don't see what the big deal is, in fact, I kind of giggle when it happens to me!" Some of her friends concurred ...esp. the older women, "Yeah, I remember those days! I miss 'em! LOL Those are the kind of women that aren't so uptight. Edited April 3, 2015 by LookAtThisPOst 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I have to say, yesterday was the first night of beautiful "spring" weather and for the first time since October, I saw lots of cleavage out in the city. It's the simple things in life that bring me joy. Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Maybe its unrelated to the original post, but there is one thing that I never could understand.... I knew a woman that was about as flat as Texas....nothing...Anyway, I guess she came into money and decided to get a boob job...Wears nothing but low cut plunging neckline skin tight tops....and everyone is going nuts about it... Now, I have great arms..Big, powerful, defined...Mostly from years of hard training and good genetics...I don't even show them unless its blistering hot out as I just prefer wearing loose fitting clothing and I like being warm..But could you imagine if I(or any other guy) were able to buy some "instant arms"? We'd be the laughing stock of the world...Same for other areas.. I mean, there are amazind forms of women's undergarments that make the worlds shyttiest looking tits seem absolutely perfect...yet its considered no problem...Now imagine how asinine it would be if a guy stuffed a cucumber down his pants to "enhance" his look? Ridiculous.... Anyway, bring it on...its great...I'm not bitching, just one of those things. I suppose.. TFY Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I have to say, yesterday was the first night of beautiful "spring" weather and for the first time since October, I saw lots of cleavage out in the city. It's the simple things in life that bring me joy. Joy or being judged a pervert on an Internet message board. Lol Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 We have boobs, get over it. I love boobies! Nothing to get over... mo is better. Are you saying that if a woman IS seeking sexual attention from potential men that she finds attractive, she must accept sexual attention from those she does not want it from? Well, sort of. It's kind of like fishing... do you fish, Sugga? So I dig me some worms, bait my hook and throw it out there hoping to get a bite, maybe catch a fish. But at the same time I accept that the vast majority of the nibbles are going to be small fish. When I catch a small one I throw him back, bait the hook and try again. I do this over and over, and I enjoy the day on the water, accepting what is. Of course I'd LOVE to catch me a biggun! But if I go out there cursing the little fish for nibbling the bait and refusing to accept that I'm just not interested in them––BIG FISH ONLY DAMMIT––how do you think the other fishermen and going to think of me, and how much cooperation do you think I'm likely to elicit from the fish? The only rational way to keep the small fish from nibbling is to not put the bait out there. It's entirely possible to enjoy a day on the water without using bait, but it's not possible to show your bait to only the fish you'd like to invite to dinner. How about men refrain from giving unwanted sexual attention to women until you get the green light that she is interested? Is that too much to ask? "We have boobs, get over it." And we have eyes, get over it. Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 We have boobs, get over it. . In fairness, back when I had a FB account there was a middle aged woman that thought it was a bright idea to take a picture of a guys ass while she was waiting on line at Starbuck's...All the other women made suggestive comments on the photo and the fun went on for days..Great.. Now imagine if a guy did that? He'd probably get arrested..And rightfully so, I suppose... I guess the only point of this post, is women shouldn't get so indignant if a guy grabs a look-as long as he isn't getting stupid or passing rude comments....You all do it to us, too!!! TFY Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 In fairness, back when I had a FB account there was a middle aged woman that thought it was a bright idea to take a picture of a guys ass while she was waiting on line at Starbuck's...All the other women made suggestive comments on the photo and the fun went on for days..Great.. Now imagine if a guy did that? He'd probably get arrested..And rightfully so, I suppose... I guess the only point of this post, is women shouldn't get so indignant if a guy grabs a look-as long as he isn't getting stupid or passing rude comments....You all do it to us, too!!! TFY It's a balance really. Showing cleavage means it's visible to the world, sure, and if it's visible, most people are gonna take a peak. I think most women are realists and they're perfectly fine with that. It starts to swing back to the creepy side tho if people interpret 'visible' as an invitation to ogle you or make salacious remarks. That's just a matter of basic dignity that should be extended to everyone. You don't do that to someone who you're extending the basic concept of respect to, such as coworkers, strangers, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 In fairness, back when I had a FB account there was a middle aged woman that thought it was a bright idea to take a picture of a guys ass while she was waiting on line at Starbuck's...All the other women made suggestive comments on the photo and the fun went on for days..Great.. Now imagine if a guy did that? He'd probably get arrested..And rightfully so, I suppose... I guess the only point of this post, is women shouldn't get so indignant if a guy grabs a look-as long as he isn't getting stupid or passing rude comments....You all do it to us, too!!! TFY Yeah...double standards galore with this topic. Lol Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 In fairness, back when I had a FB account there was a middle aged woman that thought it was a bright idea to take a picture of a guys ass while she was waiting on line at Starbuck's...All the other women made suggestive comments on the photo and the fun went on for days..Great.. Now imagine if a guy did that? He'd probably get arrested..And rightfully so, I suppose... I guess the only point of this post, is women shouldn't get so indignant if a guy grabs a look-as long as he isn't getting stupid or passing rude comments....You all do it to us, too!!! TFY What you have described here is basically what women go through all the time. So its nothing new to me. I know that men and women experience this. I acknowledge that people have eyes, however the statements in this thread which I have clearly addressed, I am very uncomfortable with. "She pretends she doesn't like it, she is lying" and "obviously seeking sexual attention" with the attitude that she is therefore an object to be given sexual attention from anyone who wants to. You disagree that this is sickening? Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Yeah...double standards galore with this topic. Lol Well, no actually. Did I say anywhere that what a man is wearing dictates whether he deserves unwanted sexual attention? No one deserves unwanted sexual attention. Do I really have to argue this point? If I was blatantly perving on a guy and he caught me out, and was upset or angry about the fact, I would likely feel pretty bad or embarrassed. Rather than entitled. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I acknowledge that people have eyes, however the statements in this thread which I have clearly addressed, I am very uncomfortable with. "She pretends she doesn't like it, she is lying" and "obviously seeking sexual attention" with the attitude that she is therefore an object to be given sexual attention from anyone who wants to. You disagree that this is sickening? I think you're overreaching and waving the feminism banner a little too vigorously. In a previous post you said, "obviously seeking sexual attention" is what I am uncomfortable with hearing. It sounds too much like rape victims "asking for it" and the irrelevant questions such as "what was she wearing to provoke the attack?" but the analogy is not parallel, nor is it even in the ballpark in terms of degree of seriousness, violation of rights, dignity or any of those important ideals. Nobody is being harmed, and she's getting exactly what she signed up for... the only problem she actually has is that she can't control which males are looking. It reminds me of an occasion several years ago when I was in New York making photographs. I was setting up a 4x5 view camera on the mezzanine in Grand Central Station. There were many people mulling about on the floor, and a table where a group of women were set up to hand out pamphlets for some cause they were promoting. So they sent one of the women upstairs to politely inform me that they did not wish to be photographed. I was polite as well and told her that I wasn't quite ready to make exposures, so they had about five minutes to pack up and leave. That wasn't the answer she was expecting. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Just how much cleavage are we talking before women are judged to be looking for attention? Take this dress, for example: http://www.rei.com/zoom/qq/b3bfaf55-9457-40ce-a91c-0b4321868118.jpg/330 Is she asking to be gawked at? I need concrete examples Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Why do women show cleavage? I know, to improve my average Link to post Share on other sites
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