Jealousy from co-workers that I am more successful but have no degree

[blackwidow290]

Hello,

 

I am in my late 20s and work for one of the big audit firms. I have been there for a few years and based on experience and outstanding performance/ dedication I have managed to get ahead.

 

The issue is that while I am educated, I ended up dropping out of university due indecisiveness about what I wanted to specialize in. I have completed 4 years worth of credits but in various areas. I think that this is a strength that has helped me succeed.

 

My co-workers always try to pry even if I tell them Im just trying to figure out what I want to do and working is the best thing for me right now. Every lunch time or whenever we go out, I get so much jealousy from them because they have a degree and I am their senior. What can I say to make them leave me alone or to put them in place?

 

Thanks.

Edited April 3, 2015 by blackwidow290

[Tayla]

a degree in experience is priceless! Which is why sometimes I don't put someone on a pedestal for getting a degree. learn what ya can, but applying it in the real business deal is a whole other ball game.

 

Let your maturity show it self when the topic is brought up. Remain open minded when they share their reasoning. There may be a grain of truth. Listen with a diplomatic mindset . Being defensive will not help. Promote yourself with limited facts...Such as " wow, you are right team members, I am still entertaining further education, and currently this job has been a landmine of how to delegate and work with other intelligent and contributing members!" Shows that you value them and are keeping your aspirations open for a degree.

[pink_sugar]

I can understand their sentiments to an extent. For some of us getting through school was a real struggle....only to be sold into a bunch of debt only to struggle to find a job that will pay what you're worth, because you'll be turned down if you don't have enough experience. Some of us really have worked hard only to not have much luck. Not saying your coworkers are right, but just something you might want to keep in mind so it doesn't bother you as much.

[SpiralOut]

What makes you think they are jealous? I can understand feeling annoyed by all their questions, but I don't see anything in your post to suggest they are acting out of jealousy. Sometimes people are nosy because that's how they are. If you're avoiding their questions it might be making them even more curious.