Sometimes life does you wrong

[jay1983]

You work so hard to get where you‘re at and spend so long building yourself from nothing to something. Everything’s good, you got it, you did it and you’re working on doing more. You help, provide, over see, fix problems, and it feels good to be able to do that.

 

Then one day it all falls apart, you try and put it back together and you can’t for the life you get anything going. It’s like climbing up a ladder and halfway there, you get knocked down. As you’re going down, you try and grab ahold, but no matter how hard to try you can’t hang on and climb back up.

 

Mean while more problems keep popping up, you wish you could fix them, but there isn’t anything you can do. It’s like you make something really good out of yourself, you’re proud of yourself, people a proud of you, they depend on you and the next day you’re back to being a deadbeat loser.

[Haydn]

You work so hard to get where you‘re at and spend so long building yourself from nothing to something. Everything’s good, you got it, you did it and you’re working on doing more. You help, provide, over see, fix problems, and it feels good to be able to do that.

 

Then one day it all falls apart, you try and put it back together and you can’t for the life you get anything going. It’s like climbing up a ladder and halfway there, you get knocked down. As you’re going down, you try and grab ahold, but no matter how hard to try you can’t hang on and climb back up.

 

Mean while more problems keep popping up, you wish you could fix them, but there isn’t anything you can do. It’s like you make something really good out of yourself, you’re proud of yourself, people a proud of you, they depend on you and the next day you’re back to being a deadbeat loser.

 

You ain`t no loser Jay.

[jay1983]

You ain`t no loser Jay.

 

Thanks bro, I appreciate it.

[Shetland]

Thats how i feel right now too. Everything is going right and then life knocks you down from nowhere and you just feel like a failure. Just gotta get back up i guess

[Methodical]

When you've been knocked down, you've got two ways to go...straight up or sideways. Either you give up or you persevere and forge ahead. If you choose to give up, you already know where you stand. If you persevere and forge ahead, even though you may backslide occasionally, one of these times you'll get a foothold and be able to propel yourself out of the dark abyss. Hang in there and keeping forging ahead.

[bebe23]

Jay, I'm going through the same boat in so many areas. It really seems hopeless and it's easy to feel like a failure even if it is circumstances not of your own doing. Hugs to you and I hope you will feel better and count your blessings in life. I can even see the blessings you have if that's your profile picture- You are very handsome, and it appears you are at a bowling alley- which means you must have friends to go out and bowl with. You seem super cute and still young. Take care and God bless!

[amaysngrace]

It's in the valley we grow.

[minimariah]

It’s like you make something really good out of yourself, you’re proud of yourself, people a proud of you, they depend on you and the next day you’re back to being a deadbeat loser.

 

you're not a deadbeat loser - you're simply going through some hard times.

 

and life is unfair! it's definitely unfair but... it is what it is. the only option we really have is to try and play the best we know how with the cards we have.

 

keep trying. look at this as just another obstacle and some kind of life storm that will pass. ups and downs... ups and downs... it's how it goes.

 

you'll get out of this even stronger than before! let this experience enrich you, let it be something that teaches you to appreciate all the small victories even more. and while we're at small victories? celebrate them! celebrate everything that is good about you, every single day.