Dealing With Infidelity Lies

[harleygirl92156]

Hey Moose,

Just so you know what I am dealing with........Last night he was getting ready for an AA meeting. Seemed to be taking special interest in the way he looked. Shaved, cologne, the works. He combed his hair 10 times in 10 minutes. Left 15 minutes earlier than usual......I decided to check it out. Guess what I found. The local AA whore (she works the meetings picking up married men for her pleasure) in his truck. She told me HE Called her and set it up, and he admitted it. Was there a confrontation....you bet there was. Did she go to the meeting with him.....hell no. What am I doing today.....PACKING.

 

So you see this man that you were defending because he was trying soooooo hard to do the right thing is an ass...........now what do you think?

[Moose]

I think it's very tragic. That's what I think. And, I'm glad you're not waisting your time now.

[EnigmaXOXO]

But only YOU will know when enough is enough. When it's time to go, you'll know it in your heart and there'll be no second guessing or looking back. The "letting go" will be easy.

 

And so the 'truth' has finally set you free…

 

Good luck and G-d's speed, Harleygirl. There are happier and more joyful days ahead. You have worked hard and now there should be no regrets. No looking back.

 

Go and reclaim your life back -- you EARNED it!

[Bubbles]

Harleygirl,

 

I'm sending my love to you..........draw strength from friends and family.

 

<<HUGS>>

 

bubbles

[Ladyjane14]

Sorry Harleygirl. Some folks just don't seem to be able to understand the concept of prioritizing their partner. I'd say your man fits into that catagory. I'd also say you went waaaaayyyy beyond what most people would have tolerated in your efforts to understand his position, and to prioritize him in your life.

 

He'll likely try to come creeping back. Don't be afraid to stand your ground until he's compliant with your boundaries. That is, if you don't want the same old relationship that you had before. If your attitude is "we'll either re-make this marriage into something good, or leave it altogether"....then do yourself a favor, and don't allow him to talk you into compromise.

 

Compromise is usually a good thing, but NOT when you're being asked to accept poor treatment. Everyone has certain boundaries of what it is that they can truly live with, and still be content with their life. Why should you continue to sacrifice yours?