Nahtaivel616 Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 I told my H that I wanted a divorce yesterday because I am tired of him not giving me what I need. My H decided a month ago to go behind my back and have his ex-girlfriend on his truck, and the had the gall to ask me was it okay after he did it. Turns out that she was on his truck for about a week before he asked me was it okay. The only way I found out about what he did was because she was threatening to tell me what was going on and he fessed up. A day after he fessed up he picked up her boyfriend to try to train him to drive trucks, which I have a little bit of a problem with. I told my H that he was going to have to work hard to regain my trust, because I don't know how much more of this I can take. Anyways, he's been acting aloof and distant for the past 3 weeks, and conceited and arrogant to boot. I'll be back with more details later because I have to get the kids ready for school. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 He may have gotten boyfriend involved "in trucks" AFTER riding with girlfriend (on truck), as a means to make things appear legit. Sounds suspicious. If you were diving a truck with an old boyfriend aboard, how would that go over? And, my main concern, in such an example, would be: Why would you do such a thing? What was the purpose of this? I would remain calm, for now, and just keep your eyes and ears open. Try not to REACT in pain or anger, wait to RESPOND, instead. Sometimes you find out more that way. Yas Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 Maybe I'm not understanding this correctly. He has this girl on his truck, but then a week later he gets HER BOYFRIEND on the truck to train him? I seriously doubt that anything is happening with this girl on the truck. That would be very brazen for him to take the boyfriend of the girl he's fooling around with on for training. That's a lot of gall. Unless, it's innocent and he has nothing to hide because nothing is going on. Now, is it inappropriate? Sure, and if it bothered you, you need to communicate that with him. I mean, if I read that correctly, then the OM (which would be your husband) are usually cowards and don't want any interaction with the BH. Link to post Share on other sites
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