Craziest situation I've ever heard

[Rileycat]

One of my friends has a terrible situation. She's been dating this guy on and off for 2 years. They both work for an airline (I work there as well). That's how they met. Wheh they met they moved pretty fast. He was her first so naturally she is VERY attached to him.I've seen him around and I warned her that he seems like a very arrogant guy. He just didn't seem like a good person.

 

Recently she broke things off with him. I would see him try to talk to her but she would ignore him as if he wasn't there or she would be short with him. So after a few days of her breaking up with him he hit on her ex-bestfriend. Her ex bestfriebd showed me the messages and told me to tell her because she said if it was her she'd want to know. We both agreed he was complete jerk. I waited until she got home to tell her because I didn't want to upset her at work. When I told her she went ballistic and told him he's disgusting among other things. I talked to her on the phone until she fell asleep because I knew she really loved him and I was worried.

 

The next day at work she found out that he STILL was trying to hit on her former friend. The former friend basically told her that she wants no dealings with him and that she wants no part of their drama. He didn't stop there either he for some odd reason told everyone at our job that she wasn't a virgin when he was with her (which is untrue) and he requested for her to be moved to a diff area of the airport!! He told ppl that he was NEVER with her and she was only sex to him for 2 years. I was so thrown off by his behavior because she's such a sweet girl and he was the one in the wrong!! He even made an effort to make her lose her job. He still parks in the same area she parks however which to me is a bit strange. Sometimes he tries to make random conversation with her. I don't get this guy he's a complete question mark.

 

Ive watched her mentally break within the past few days. She deleted herself from EVERY social media sight she was on. She only goes to work and home and flat out declines any request to take her anywhere. She told me that she wanted to make herself invisible for awhile. That explains why she deleted her social media. She's become a complete recluse. Whenever I do see her at work she looks like a zombie. The look in her eyes is like a blank look. She seems very detached. It seems as if she doesn't want him to see her. Or that she doesn't want to be seen by anyone. She told me she felt really embarrassed.

I don't really understand why he's doing this to her. He seems like a complete narcissist. It's almost like he was offended that she dumped him.

LIke he wanted to get revenge on her.

 

I want to help her but idk how. I figured maybe her keeping to herself would be good but the ways she's doing it seems unhealthy. It's like she's mourning. I've never seen her this way and it's killing me. Is there anything I could do to help?

[road]

One of my friends has a terrible situation. She's been dating this guy on and off for 2 years. They both work for an airline (I work there as well). That's how they met. Wheh they met they moved pretty fast. He was her first so naturally she is VERY attached to him.I've seen him around and I warned her that he seems like a very arrogant guy. He just didn't seem like a good person.

 

Recently she broke things off with him. I would see him try to talk to her but she would ignore him as if he wasn't there or she would be short with him. So after a few days of her breaking up with him he hit on her ex-bestfriend. Her ex bestfriebd showed me the messages and told me to tell her because she said if it was her she'd want to know. We both agreed he was complete jerk. I waited until she got home to tell her because I didn't want to upset her at work. When I told her she went ballistic and told him he's disgusting among other things. I talked to her on the phone until she fell asleep because I knew she really loved him and I was worried.

 

The next day at work she found out that he STILL was trying to hit on her former friend. The former friend basically told her that she wants no dealings with him and that she wants no part of their drama. He didn't stop there either he for some odd reason told everyone at our job that she wasn't a virgin when he was with her (which is untrue) and he requested for her to be moved to a diff area of the airport!! He told ppl that he was NEVER with her and she was only sex to him for 2 years. I was so thrown off by his behavior because she's such a sweet girl and he was the one in the wrong!! He even made an effort to make her lose her job. He still parks in the same area she parks however which to me is a bit strange. Sometimes he tries to make random conversation with her. I don't get this guy he's a complete question mark.

 

Ive watched her mentally break within the past few days. She deleted herself from EVERY social media sight she was on. She only goes to work and home and flat out declines any request to take her anywhere. She told me that she wanted to make herself invisible for awhile. That explains why she deleted her social media. She's become a complete recluse. Whenever I do see her at work she looks like a zombie. The look in her eyes is like a blank look. She seems very detached. It seems as if she doesn't want him to see her. Or that she doesn't want to be seen by anyone. She told me she felt really embarrassed.

I don't really understand why he's doing this to her. He seems like a complete narcissist. It's almost like he was offended that she dumped him.

LIke he wanted to get revenge on her.

 

I want to help her but idk how. I figured maybe her keeping to herself would be good but the ways she's doing it seems unhealthy. It's like she's mourning. I've never seen her this way and it's killing me. Is there anything I could do to help?

 

 

People rend to mourn when a relationship ends.

[PegNosePete]

Her and her ex best friend should ignore this jerk. By responding to his drama they are encouraging it.

 

She should talk to HR about the harassment at work.

[Maxtor]

I would stay away. Whenever she remembers this situation, she will also remember you, and in a bad way, because you will be forever related to this story.