sad123 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 My ex and I are friends. Good friends actually but sometimes he says things that are mean to me. Like he'll say "If i found the perfect girl I would have married her" or " If we were married you would drive me insane" . He is not the one that even dumped me...I dumped him. To top things off he always tries to tell me that I am like any other girl he has dated in the past. Then why does he still talk to me?
NTB Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 the question should be why do you talk to him? if the things he says bother or hurt you in any way stop talking to him .......
Author sad123 Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 You are right. I just feel as though we can still be friends...but i dont know why he says what he says.
Author sad123 Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 mean? for what? I have always been nice to him....
billybadass36 Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 (a) you broke it off with him - he's probably saying those things to make himself feel better; (b) beign friends with exes is a bad idea.
mixwell Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Dont you see whats going on here ?? He is acting this way because he is trying to play it cool and act like he doesnt like you anymore in order to get you back maybe ? He sounds like he is overplaying the "not interested" role though. How long have you been broken up ? How did he react ? was he like whatever or was he emotional or what ??
Author sad123 Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 Its been a 1 year and a half since we broke up. He acted like he cared but i didn't have a good feeling about him. He was still in a f-ed up state because he just came out of a 5 year relationship. I wanted to be there for him and still be friends.
mixwell Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 hmm maybe he is just trying to reassure you that you two are only friends then ? That might be his way of letting you know that he is completly over you ? or so he wants you to think.
Author sad123 Posted April 15, 2005 Author Posted April 15, 2005 I don't know. I know that we are friends...but to say something like that? He "claims" that he still has feelings for me. I have plenty of guy friends and I would never say anything like that to them. That's mean and there are other ways of saying things. Its over and I know it...but why can't we just be friends? Civil and NICE...
clynn Posted April 16, 2005 Posted April 16, 2005 Because his feelings ie: his ego has been hurt and so he is compensating for it by saying these things, probably to convince himself as much as you.
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