My lover Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 (edited) I understand that it depends on the person and everyone is different. Personally I don't. like facial hair and even though I shave twice a week it's a nightmare. Because my stubble is dark and thick. It takes me a good hour to get a really close smooth shave. I like to take my time. But then I feel so bad thinking of how long it has taken. I beat myself up and feel bad. Trrying to shave every hair. I do go over the same area until the hairs come off. I am a perfectionist. My face gets red, sore and bleeds. Through trying to get every hair off. Please help thankyou. Edited April 10, 2015 by My lover Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 Some women think it's sexy. It's hard to feel bad for you when you shave twice per week. Guys I know with dark beards who want a clean face shave twice per day. If you think shaving your face is bad, try having to shave your legs. If you are uncomfortable from shaving look into products for sensitive skin. Make sure your blades are sharp & clean. You should store the blade in olive oil to keep moisture away from it while not in use. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 I like facial hair just fine, but stubble hurts if a man tries to kiss me with it. Either clean shaven, or more fully grown, the inbetween prickliness hurts! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 Grow a beard and keep it trimmed! It looks great on guys with good quality facial hair. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Syberia Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 Yes, they do. My wife has forbade me from shaving until further notice. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 I love a man with stubble when it suits the man! My LTR man shaved religiously until a festival weekend and when we got home I always asked if he would keep the stubble just for me a day or two longer. Sometimes he did, sometimes he really wanted to shave. I can't blame him and I never did. He didn't feel clean with stubble but he looked great with or without tbh. Apologies in advance but this next part may be TMI so do not read if easily offended. Another of my ex's suited stubble and I said I liked it on him. He was a twit though and assumed that because I liked stubble I also liked it forced directly upon my clitoris... I remember that night...I screamed in pain and he huffed, puffed his chest out and shouted 'oh, so you don't REALLY like stubble then!!!????' and rolled over. In my mind this was a WTF moment but I have been wisely informed by several men that I am incorrect on that score. Who knew! Lol! If that is the case these days then I will stay single and pain free..and celibate. I can't say I would happily be celibate. High sex drive here so the thought of never again is er....well.. . I always thought and in every previous RS that part of the RS has been lips and tongues and not stubble - pretty much like teeth is a no go. I have never and would never wish to cause a man pain. I like/lurve stubble as long as no one uses it as a weapon of mass destruction on me! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 10, 2015 Share Posted April 10, 2015 No. I think it just looks dirty and messy. Link to post Share on other sites
RedButton Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 My ex seemed to like me with or without stubble, she did say she got bad 'beard burn' from kissing when I had stubble though, haha! I personally think I look better with a bit of growth, that might also be because I'm bald (shave my head) so I feel like having a bit of stubble gives me some 'colour' I guess. I do recall a girl at my last job coming up to me when I hadn't shaved in a few days and saying "You've got those 'rugged good looks' going this week, don't you?". That kind of stuck with me, pretty sure it was a genuine compliment. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 YES! Of course I can only speak for myself. I am a woman that thinks every man looks dead sexy and even more handsome WITH some kind of facial hair. :D 2 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 I only read pro-facial hair stuff once while looking for erotica to read. One of the writers wrote "Ladies, try to get oral from a guy with a trimmed goatiee. Just trust me on this". I must admit, I've been curious ever since. Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 Not really, it looks nice but kissing from stubble rash sux Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 grow a beard man 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Syberia Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 I only read pro-facial hair stuff once while looking for erotica to read. One of the writers wrote "Ladies, try to get oral from a guy with a trimmed goatiee. Just trust me on this". I must admit, I've been curious ever since. If I'm not all that careful, it irritates her lady parts when I'm down there. She likes the way it looks, but it can get in the way. Link to post Share on other sites
LizardRex Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 It's interesting, Tinder recently studied their data (if you can trust that kind of source) and found clean shaven men get more matches than bearded men do. And men who had beards as their main profile pic and then shaved, saw their match rate go up. I believe the whole beard craze is a bit overblown, but every man should rock a look that works for him personally and not follow trends. Ahh, but this is about stubble. I think I look better with it, but have never noticed an increase or decrease in the attention I get as a result of having it versus not. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I shaved my beard once and all my female friends and the women at work hated it. They liked the stumble after 2 or 3 days, but they hated me clean shaved. I agree with them, I look better with something, either some stuble, a beard or some hair on my chin. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LizardRex Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 The article I referenced in my initial post: Women on Tinder Don't Like Beards Again though this is beards and not stubble. Still interesting methinks. Link to post Share on other sites
Hawaii51 Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I look extremely baby-faced when I shave. But with a beard I look like that little kid (with the beard) on the Cambell's soup commercial. At least with the beard I do get a certain amount of superficial respect, like I did something. it's weird. http://i.ytimg.com/vi/_sQycHz6ZXo/hqdefault.jpg Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I shaved my beard once and all my female friends and the women at work hated it. They liked the stumble after 2 or 3 days, but they hated me clean shaved. I agree with them, I look better with something, either some stuble, a beard or some hair on my chin. Sometimes when my friends shave their beards it just looks weird and different because I'm used to seeing them with a beard. I wouldn't say it looks bad but i dont like it for that reason. If I had seen them clean shaven in the first place i wouldn't have the same reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 The article I referenced in my initial post: Women on Tinder Don't Like Beards Again though this is beards and not stubble. Still interesting methinks. Tinder became an instant hit with young people. The main demographic of Tinder are men and women using Tinder are between 18-34. Out of the 50 million users, only 3% are now aged between 45-54 and 12% are 35-44. Given that younger women often prefer shaven men this makes sense...at least as far as Tinder is concerned. As for the rest of us who don't live or dye by some app stats, keep your facial hair boys 1 Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 (edited) I ran out of shaving cream so I had two days of stubble going yesterday and I did notice a little more eye contact from women than normal. I can't tell if it was the stubble or the fact my face was bright red from a sunburn in the middle of April though. Maybe they thought I'm wealthy and just got back from Florida instead. Edited April 14, 2015 by gaius Link to post Share on other sites
regine_phalange Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I love facial hair when it's well groomed. I even like moustaches (on good-looking guys). But there are some men who look better clean shaven, mainly those with very thick or very sparse facial hair. Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I'm not a big fan of a full beard. A goatee or some stubble are amazing though! The problem with stubble, though, is that if the guy's hair is too coarse, it will ruin me. And I'm not even talking oral... Coarse beard hair will burn my face. Once it was so bad my whole upper lip swelled up. Not pretty and certainly NOT discreet! Link to post Share on other sites
Cali408 Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 I'm not a big fan of a full beard. A goatee or some stubble are amazing though! The problem with stubble, though, is that if the guy's hair is too coarse, it will ruin me. And I'm not even talking oral... Coarse beard hair will burn my face. Once it was so bad my whole upper lip swelled up. Not pretty and certainly NOT discreet! No they're not. Especially if you are like me and have orange facial hair. God's cruel joke. Dark brown up top and full, burnt orange everywhere else. Had a mustache for Movember, my wife never felt more celibate. Exfoliation soap, provaso shave cream and a Harry's razor. Smoother than a baby's bare bottom Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 No they're not. Especially if you are like me and have orange facial hair. God's cruel joke. Dark brown up top and full, burnt orange everywhere else. Had a mustache for Movember, my wife never felt more celibate. Exfoliation soap, provaso shave cream and a Harry's razor. Smoother than a baby's bare bottom Oh... I need to make something VERY clear. Mustaches on their own are NEVER ok. As for the colour... I mean... it can be sexy! A friend of mine, even though he is not ginger in any way, grows a red beard! I find it really cool and maybe even sexy! Link to post Share on other sites
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