confused

[Freedom Burke]

This is going to be kind of confusing but bear with

 

me I just need some help.Me and my ex boyfriend were

 

together for 5 years,we lived together for 2 years

 

and engaged for 3 years and I thought everything was

 

wonderful until January when he turned 20 and

 

decided he needed some time and space so I moved

 

back in with my mom and grandparents. We were still

 

togther(I also broke the engagement at this time

 

because I felt that he wasn't ready)I spent Sundays

 

and Mondays with him and he would call me all the

 

time)Well then I thought That he was smoking pot

 

behind my back and I had always told him if he ever

 

went back to smoking it I was leaving. Well I

 

suspected he was and asked him more than once and he

 

always denied it.Well at the end Of February I fond

 

some pot in his apartment I got all of my stuff out

 

of his place while he was gone to work. He never

 

suspected a thing well,for 2 weeks he never called

 

or anything .Well I sent him a letter telling him

 

that I as willing to accept him for who he was .Well

 

he called me back and we decided to work things out

 

and get back together.Everything was wonderful until

 

him and his roommate had to move. So we(his

 

roommate,his roommates girlfriend,me and him)Well on

 

the following Monday we were talking and I told him

 

that I didn't think he was ready for me to move back

 

in with him. That night he called me from work and

 

told me that yes he was ready for me to move back in

 

with him and he loved me.then the following Sunday

 

he told me that he was not happy with me living with

 

him but he wasn't going to ask me to leave well I

 

left anyway and we broke up .We talked later and he

 

said that he just wanted to be friends for a while

 

and he just wanted some space to himself forawhile.

 

Well I decided he could call me if he wanted to talk

 

to me .Well he calls me about three times a week and

 

comes and sees me at work on fridays or

 

saturdays.What do I do ? I love him more than

 

anythng and I know that he loves me. I also found out that he has been smoking pot for the past 5 years off and on and possibly fooled around(didn't sleep with)another girl after we were engaged.

[a friend]

This is going to be kind of confusing but bear with me I just need some help.Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 5 years,we lived together for 2 years and engaged for 3 years and I thought everything was wonderful until January when he turned 20 and decided he needed some time and space so I moved back in with my mom and grandparents. We were still togther(I also broke the engagement at this time because I felt that he wasn't ready)I spent Sundays and Mondays with him and he would call me all the time)Well then I thought That he was smoking pot behind my back and I had always told him if he ever went back to smoking it I was leaving. Well I suspected he was and asked him more than once and he always denied it.Well at the end Of February I fond some pot in his apartment I got all of my stuff out of his place while he was gone to work. He never suspected a thing well,for 2 weeks he never called or anything .Well I sent him a letter telling him that I as willing to accept him for who he was .Well he called me back and we decided to work things out and get back together.Everything was wonderful until him and his roommate had to move. So we(his

 

roommate,his roommates girlfriend,me and him)Well on the following Monday we were talking and I told him that I didn't think he was ready for me to move back in with him. That night he called me from work and told me that yes he was ready for me to move back in with him and he loved me.then the following Sunday he told me that he was not happy with me living with him but he wasn't going to ask me to leave well I left anyway and we broke up .We talked later and he said that he just wanted to be friends for a while and he just wanted some space to himself forawhile. Well I decided he could call me if he wanted to talk to me .Well he calls me about three times a week and comes and sees me at work on fridays or saturdays.What do I do ? I love him more than anythng and I know that he loves me. I also found out that he has been smoking pot for the past 5 years off and on and possibly fooled around(didn't sleep with)another girl after we were engaged.

why would you want to put up with him?????

 

If thats how is is now --what makes you think its going to get any better!!! Cut off all contact and let this dope smoking idiot go to hell!!! Get on with your life --someone that cares more about you - than himself is out there--- find them !!!