fred123 Posted April 12, 2015 Share Posted April 12, 2015 Iv been chatting to a girl in the US for the last week. We have skyped most days. I like her a lot. Not sure if we are just friends or what this is. How do i go about this without messing up? We talk about lots of things and we have fun chatting Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 12, 2015 Share Posted April 12, 2015 Until you meet her in person this is just a fantasy. With the distance and all the immigration issues, I don't see any meaningful hope for this. Having an international relationship sounds so exotic. Really it's just lonely. Why do that to yourself? You really need to start dating locally. Your last "LDR" which was closer than this didn't work out well when you finally met. Something closer to home is your best bet because it's more realistic that you can fall in love & spend time with the other person. This will probably never transition from electronics to real life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fred123 Posted April 13, 2015 Author Share Posted April 13, 2015 Until you meet her in person this is just a fantasy. With the distance and all the immigration issues, I don't see any meaningful hope for this. Having an international relationship sounds so exotic. Really it's just lonely. Why do that to yourself? You really need to start dating locally. Your last "LDR" which was closer than this didn't work out well when you finally met. Something closer to home is your best bet because it's more realistic that you can fall in love & spend time with the other person. This will probably never transition from electronics to real life. i understand what you are saying but the good thing about this is she makes time to Skype me and we have skyped a few times whereas the other girl was always too busy to Skype so surely its a sign of interest? whether it works out or not i think for me i don't mind things not working out due to the logistics of things rather than that i was played or she wasn't interested. i am trying to learn what makes a girl interested and whether she likes me as a friend or more. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 Iv been chatting to a girl in the US for the last week. We have skyped most days. I like her a lot. Not sure if we are just friends or what this is. How do i go about this without messing up? We talk about lots of things and we have fun chatting WAY too soon to be assuming anything. She is practically a stranger. Have chats but meet girls locally. Don't ever commit yourself to anyone unless and until you meet in person. Full stop. Link to post Share on other sites
SearchingForMyself Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 Until you meet her in person this is just a fantasy. With the distance and all the immigration issues, I don't see any meaningful hope for this. Having an international relationship sounds so exotic. Really it's just lonely. Why do that to yourself? You really need to start dating locally. Your last "LDR" which was closer than this didn't work out well when you finally met. Something closer to home is your best bet because it's more realistic that you can fall in love & spend time with the other person. This will probably never transition from electronics to real life. Yeah, I know what he means. Sorry dude but she's right. Link to post Share on other sites
SearchingForMyself Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 Yeah, I know what he means. Sorry dude but she's right. Do you live in a rural town? Link to post Share on other sites
Syberia Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 (edited) Do you live in a rural town? Even if he does, those cowgirls can be damn sexy! And if they happen to have a southern accent... And OP, I'm sorry but I'm going to have to agree with everyone else who posted here - she's in another country, she's almost certainly out of reach. Edited April 13, 2015 by Syberia Link to post Share on other sites
OnlyHonesty Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 This is a guaranteed waste of precious time, I wonder why so many guys insist on wasting it. Link to post Share on other sites
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