Redwings85 Posted April 12, 2015 Share Posted April 12, 2015 Hey Guys. I'm fairly new to the site, have been reading a lot of threads lately, and finally decided to post a new one. I am finding myself having some difficulty developing something more serious/exclusive from the dating scene. I have been on numerous dates over the last 2-3 years with little to no luck. I've been in 2 serious relationships both under a year prior. I usually go on about 2-3 dates (usually with different woman) a month and find that most of my dates come from match.com, coffee meets bagels, and a few from the local bars/breweries...etc. My problem is that the majority of my dates that show some interest in me, are with woman I just cant connect with despite initially drawing my attention (either there is no chemistry, attraction, similar interests...etc) and the few that I actually like and have chemistry/attraction to do not seem overly interested and usually fizzle out after 2-3 dates which I'm sure is a pretty common problem. So I guess my question is what I am doing wrong that I seem to have a difficult time getting my dates who I am pursuing interested in me. If I'm usually interested in someone I will let them know fairly quickly. I find that despite this, and that fact that majority of times I end my 2nd/3rd date kissing the girl, I cant seem to get the relationship going any where? *I should add more context to this story and mention that I'm in the late twenties, have my own place/car, and am fairly outgoing. I wouldn't say I'm the best looking or funniest guy out there, but I'm definitely somewhere in the middle, and I can hold a conversation with just about anyone. I would say I have a decent level of confidence in myself, however, I am trying to switch my career which may contribute to my confidence level being slightly lower for the time being. What do you guys think, any advice is greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
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