irvinmags Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 Hello guys, from the title it self, it has been 2 1/4 months of NC on my end. I got dumped last January. She was my first love and my bestfriend. She initialized NC first after a week of break up. She did not respond to my texts and what not. Did a little bit of begging. I initiated NC on her when she ran away (literally as if she saw a ghost and ran away from me) although she before she ran away, she uttered "Not now". So that's that. She ran away from me... So that's that. I am now somehow coping up but there are times when I just miss her and I want to talk to her. She did not tell me the "reason" why she broke up with me. She just told me that everyone will know eventually so she just kept it. Link to post Share on other sites
Kbomb Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 Sounds really weird to me!......She said ''not now'' and just ran away??? Thats the last you spoke? How long were you together? Link to post Share on other sites
ZiggyZoo Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 Hello guys, from the title it self, it has been 2 1/4 months of NC on my end. I got dumped last January. She was my first love and my bestfriend. She initialized NC first after a week of break up. She did not respond to my texts and what not. Did a little bit of begging. I initiated NC on her when she ran away (literally as if she saw a ghost and ran away from me) although she before she ran away, she uttered "Not now". So that's that. She ran away from me... So that's that. I am now somehow coping up but there are times when I just miss her and I want to talk to her. She did not tell me the "reason" why she broke up with me. She just told me that everyone will know eventually so she just kept it. Yeah, that's normal, to flat-out miss them. I still have moments like that, and I'm four months out from my breakup. Good job on the NC. So what was the reason? I'm guessing another man, since she said everyone will know eventually. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 I initiated NC on her when she ran away (literally as if she saw a ghost and ran away from me) although she before she ran away, she uttered "Not now". She did not tell me the "reason" why she broke up with me. She just told me that everyone will know eventually so she just kept it. This behavior indicates a serious lack of maturity. She does not sound like someone you should have in your life in any serious capacity. Be grateful you've NC'd this far. Keep it up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author irvinmags Posted April 15, 2015 Author Share Posted April 15, 2015 Sounds really weird to me!......She said ''not now'' and just ran away??? Thats the last you spoke? How long were you together? We've been close friends fr more than 5 years. But considering the dating and being official it has been for about a year. Link to post Share on other sites
Author irvinmags Posted April 15, 2015 Author Share Posted April 15, 2015 Yeah, that's normal, to flat-out miss them. I still have moments like that, and I'm four months out from my breakup. Good job on the NC. So what was the reason? I'm guessing another man, since she said everyone will know eventually. I think she said that everyone will know because she's afraid that I will tell everyone why we broke up. Because we kinda went off last december and she saw my message to my close friend about what happened when we went off last december. Link to post Share on other sites
Author irvinmags Posted April 15, 2015 Author Share Posted April 15, 2015 This behavior indicates a serious lack of maturity. She does not sound like someone you should have in your life in any serious capacity. Be grateful you've NC'd this far. Keep it up. As far as I've felt, yes she does need some maturity. The thing is she told one of her friends that she never felt that I loved her so much but a month before, she told that friend that she knows that I love her so mcuh and that she cannot live without me. Link to post Share on other sites
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